#62 27 Hand Job Tips to Make Him Explode with Ashley Manta
The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice
Sean Jameson
3.8 • 899 Ratings
🗓️ 29 January 2025
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
Hand jobs are often overlooked as an appetizer to sexual experiences when the truth is, they can lead to an incredible explosion of pleasure for anyone with a penis! In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, sex expert Ashley Manta joins us to share her hand job tips. Tuning in, you’ll gain insight into Ashley’s extensive experience working as a sexual violence counselor, a phone sex operator, and even at a Planned Parenthood clinic. You’ll find out how she became passionate about helping people improve their sex lives and how she found an amazing connection between sex and cannabis before discussing how to unlock your dirty talk voice. Ashley goes on to share some incredible hand job tips; from posture to foreplay, using two hands, why lube is essential, and much more, her tips will blow your mind! Hear all about the importance of consent and feedback, learn some amazing techniques like the “pepper grinder” and the “waterfall,” and find out how you can “bring it home" to help your partner achieve an explosive orgasm. You won’t want to miss this episode, so be sure to tune in now!
Key Points From This Episode:
- Ashely’s early career; from sexual violence counselor to Planned Parenthood.
- What it was like to work as a phone sex operator.
- How Ashley came to teach people about combining sex with cannabis.
- Advice for unlocking your dirty talk voice and gaining confidence in it.
- Why someone may opt to give their partner a hand job instead of a blow job.
- What inspired Ashley to perfect her hand job technique (and how she did it).
- How to prepare your hands for a hand job, plus some foreplay tips.
- The kinds of lube Ashley reaches for when she gives a hand job.
- Why a two-handed hand job is game-changing and what the “pepper grinder” is.
- The importance of feedback during a hand job and some great spots to focus on.
- Ashley describes her waterfall, bottle rocket, and lemon juicer techniques.
- Being dynamic and fluid when focusing on your partner’s sexual pleasure.
- Why Ashley doesn’t only focus on the penis during a hand job.
- Consent for perineum stimulation and preparing for anal stimulation.
- Some position and location suggestions to give your partner a mind-blowing hand job!
- How eye contact can enhance a hand job and how to bring it home.
Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:
Ashley Manta — https://www.ashleymanta.com/
Ashley Manta on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/ashleymanta/
Ashley Manta on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/cannasexual/
Ashley Manta on X — https://x.com/TheCannasexual
Elevated Intimacy — https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/
Sex: How Cannabis, CBD, and Other Plant Allies Can Improve Your Everyday Life — https://www.amazon.com/Merry-Janes-CBD-Solution-Cannabis/dp/1452177910
Betty Martin: The Wheel of Consent — https://bettymartin.org/videos/
Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I want to do things that you don't normally do. |
| 0:02.8 | And so that looks like two hands. |
| 0:04.7 | That looks like lube. |
| 0:05.8 | That looks like getting behind the balls and up the inguinal crease in your inner thigh. |
| 0:11.9 | And I'll do some big strokes over the lower abdomen and the pubic mound to start, |
| 0:16.7 | work my hands up the inner thighs, and then start to do more pinpoint stimulation in the genitals. |
| 0:26.5 | Hey gang, this podcast, what handjob expert Ashley Mantot will teach you how to give your man |
| 0:34.2 | the kind of hand job that he would brag to his friends about. |
| 0:38.1 | In the episode, we cover everything from how to build up and start off your handjob, |
| 0:43.0 | the exact hand job techniques you should be using on his penis, which loops to use and why, |
| 0:48.8 | how to stimulate the most sensitive parts of his penis, how to use dirty talk to amp up the pleasure and of course |
| 0:55.9 | how to finish off your hand job in style. Quick note, we start the podcast talking about |
| 1:01.9 | Ashley's background, what she learned about talking dirty as a phone sex operator. Then at the |
| 1:07.8 | nine minute mark we start talking about how to give a great hand job. I really think |
| 1:13.0 | you're going to enjoy this one. If you're not already subscribed to the Bad Girls Bible podcast, |
| 1:18.4 | you just need to open your podcasts app, search for Bad Girls Bible and hit that subscribe button |
| 1:24.8 | so you get the latest episodes delivered straight to you the moment they are |
| 1:29.7 | released. Today I'm talking to Ashley Manta. She's an award-winning sex educator and coach |
| 1:37.3 | and has become a sought-after authority on mindfully combining sex and cannabis as part of her canisexual brand. |
| 1:45.6 | She's also published a book called Sex, How Cannabis, CBD and Other Plant Allies |
| 1:50.8 | can improve your everyday life. |
| 1:53.8 | Ashley, thanks so much for coming on the show. |
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