When your mind begins to spiral and you have no idea what to do about it or why you are this way,

it is residue of past trauma.

How many people do you know who have church hurt?

Almost everybody.

And they hate the church.

Right.

How many people do you know who have people hurt?

Oh yeah.

Do they hate all people?

No.

What's the difference?

Ah, you're triggered.

Not all social categorization is bad. Some of it's really

helpful. Like what? The third week of the month and your business is on pace to lose money? What do you do?

You're going to do the same thing you did the last time you were the third week of the month.

Now you're looping and you're neurotic. When you're triggered, it means that something in your body

is still active that wants to be dealt with.

Because time doesn't heal.

Time varies.

The reason that attachment styles are even a thing is because what we have battled with in our past is a threat to our future.

This is where people become addicted to failure.

Because for their entire lives, they've tried to do something.

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