#60 Domination Tips from A Real-Life Dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2024

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Domination, bondage, discipline, and other sexual kinks are merely tools to aid in a story being told between sexual partners. In this episode of The Bad Girls Bible, real-life dominatrix of 13 years, Mistress Eva Oh joins us to discuss all things domination and share her tips for women and couples interested in these pleasures. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how our guest became a dominatrix, how her career has helped her embrace her personality, what work is like day-to-day, and so much more! She shares (some unexpected) advice for women wanting to be more dominant sexually before telling us how couples can get into BDSM and discipline. We even discuss the personal exploration involved in sadistic sexual practices. From boundaries, to aftercare, to the traffic light and safe word system, this episode explores all things sexual domination from a realistic perspective so be sure to press play now!

Key Points From This Episode:

Introducing today’s guest, real-life dominatrix, Mistress Eva Oh.
Eva tells us about her background and how she became a dominatrix.
What it’s like to be a dominatrix day-to-day when she started versus now.
How being a dominatrix has helped her assert herself authentically.
Why she doesn’t try to understand why her clients want to be dominated.
Women wanting to be more dominant and how she suggests they achieve that.
Eva’s advice for couples wanting to try bondage and discipline for the first time.
How sadism is not only a sexual interaction but also a personal exploration.
The importance of having a conversation about boundaries before trying BDSM.
Eva explains the traffic light and safe word system for a kinky sexual experience.
The aftercare involved when a BDSM scene ends between sexual partners.

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Mistress Eva Oh — https://www.eva-oh.com/

Mistress Eva Oh on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/youwillplease_me/

Mistress Eva Oh on X — https://x.com/youwillpleaseme/

Mistress Eva Oh on TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@youwillpleaseme

You Will Please Me — https://www.youwillpleaseme.com/

The Teakink Podcast — https://www.teakink.com/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Transcript

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0:00.0	for some people. But again, I live in the psychological. And sometimes the threat is better.
0:05.7	So people understanding, like, once they are locked, as long as there's, like, a trusting thing
0:10.4	happening, like making suggestions. You understand that I can do whatever I want with you now, right?
0:17.1	You know that you can't use your hand to touch this or grab that or whatever.
0:21.9	It's just like moving with the psychology.
0:24.2	So I think, yeah, sure, make somebody immobile.
0:27.4	But I think making them really understand how immobile they are is probably the more fun part.
0:39.5	This is the Bad Girls Bible podcast.
0:42.2	I'm your host, Sean Jameson, and this is the place where I interview experts and professionals
0:47.2	and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your relationships and have
0:52.1	more enjoyable sex more often.
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1:14.9	Today I'm talking to Eva O.
1:20.2	She's a professional dominatrix who has been honored with a sexual freedom award and has also served as the face of the German Fetish Ball.
1:24.1	Among her pioneering contributions is the creation of the world's first submissive
1:29.4	training platform, You Will Please Me.com, and the T-Kink series and the award-winning SafeWord podcast.
1:37.6	She's also been featured in the Washington Post, Wired, Rolling Stone, and many other major media outlets.
1:45.0	Mistress Eva, thanks so much for coming on the show.
1:47.8	Thank you for having me.
1:49.5	Always amusing to hear about myself.
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