Hello lovely humans, I'm Wiley and you're listening to sex stories, a

podcast where we talk about very personal things in an effort to improve sex lives everywhere and my

guest today is quite literally an expert at improving sex lives.

Welcome Heather Jeff Coate. Thanks Waiyo, thank you so much for having me. Do I call you

should I title-wise call you DPT? Should I call you Dr. Jeff Coate? What do you

usually go by? Either Heather pretty much or Dr Heather.

Dr Heather. Oh, and yeah, Dr Heather.

Okay, can you please give our listeners a little overview about yourself,

the work that you do and your personal background?

Yeah, so I am a physical therapist. the work that you do and your personal background?

Yes, so I am a physical therapist here in Los Angeles

and I have three offices where I specialize in primarily

treating women sexual health,

but really I treat men, transgender health as well.

It's just a smaller population for my office.

And most of the women that come have painful intercourse

or the inability to have sex because they have pain.

Not awesome.

Not awesome.

I mean, some are so severe that they can't even insert tampons without pain.

So there's a lot of muscle guarding that can be associated with that and some other things which we can dive into. But really they have difficulties with penetration. To some extent some of them have orgasmic difficulty, especially if they're having pain,

but even without pain sometimes they're having difficulty achieving orgasm,

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