6.5 Creating Love with Mark Groves

Saturn Returns with Caggie

Caggie Dunlop

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement

4.8 • 892 Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2022

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Human Connection Specialist, podcast host and Create The Love founder Mark Groves, joined Caggie in Season 3 of Saturn Returns. This episode struck a chord with many of you, and so we have brought him back to share more of his wisdom! The previous episode covered Love Languages and the anxious attachment dance and Caggie explains how this was a pivotal conversation in finding the partner she has now. Mark also explains why we pursue unavailable people, how to handle rejection, the roles we play out in relationships, how we can show up more fully and in true Saturnian form, how to take more responsibility for ourselves and our patterns. Ultimately, how the level of honesty and intimacy we can reach in partnership is a direct reflection of the honesty and intimacy we can reach in ourselves. If you’d like to listen to the first episode with Mark titled ‘Relationships and Love Languages,’ head back to season 3, episode 7. --- Follow or subscribe to "Saturn Returns" for future episodes, where we explore the transformative impact of Saturn's return with inspiring guests and thought-provoking discussions. Follow Caggie Dunlop on Instagram to stay updated on her personal journey and you can find Saturn Returns on Instagram, YouTube and TikTok. Order the Saturn Returns Book. Join our community newsletter here. Find all things Saturn Returns, offerings and more here.

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0:00.0	Hello everyone and welcome to Saturn Returns with me Kaggy Dunlop.
0:10.0	This is a podcast that aims to bring clarity during transitional times where there can be confusion and
0:15.4	doubt.
0:22.4	Whenever I'm in a relationship with someone who's unavailable, I am not having to actually meet and present all of myself.
0:31.0	You know, it appears as though I'm avoiding rejection, but I'm actually living existing in it.
0:36.5	In this very special episode of Saturn Returns, I am reunited with one of my favorite guests from a previous season and that is the one and only Mark Groves.
0:47.0	As some of you will remember back in season 3, Mark joined me as we discussed relationships and love languages and the Avoidant
0:55.3	Anxious Attachment Dance.
0:57.2	I'm going to share a moment with you from this previous episode as not only was it an incredibly
1:02.0	popular one, but it was also very raw and personal one for me.
1:06.0	We talked about life growing up and particularly talked about life when I was 14.
1:12.0	Now, I was always a very sensitive and I guess quite
1:16.1	shy when I was growing up and I internalized a lot of this as you know being too
1:21.8	emotional or too sensitive.
1:23.6	And the conversation I had with Mark
1:26.7	kind of drew parallels between these things
1:29.7	I internalized at 14 and how I showed up in relationship and how I wasn't able to ask for what I truly needed.
1:37.0	Now I'm mentioning this because I want to encourage you guys to do the same because I think when we go through our Saturn Square
1:44.9	at 14 we can internalize a lot of things about ourselves and about the world
1:49.2	that we think aren't worthy or aren't acceptable and this then plays out in adult life.
1:55.0	Mark was always a dream guest of mine,
1:57.0	and so when I had this first conversation with him,
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