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First Name Basis Podcast

6.13: How Can I Help My Kiddos Grapple With Hard History?

First Name Basis Podcast

Jasmine Bradshaw

How To, Parenting, Education, Kids & Family

5629 Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2022

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

You know what would really help us all out? If we realized that historical figures are more than the heroes/villains that we often reduce them to. 

Although past presidents and leaders had important titles with huge amounts of power, it’s critical that all of us, including our children, understand that they were people. People who were complicated. People who did good things and bad things (sometimes very, very bad things that have been erased for a long time and need to be talked about). When we look beyond the hero/villian binary, we get closer to the truth and closer to learning the important lessons that history has to offer us. 

In this episode — which is the last installment in our Summer School series — we are talking about how we can reconcile and grapple with hard history as adults and how we can help the kids in our lives do the same.

Summer School is a series where I’m sharing quick tips and tidbits for you to be thinking about this summer when it comes to anti-racism. Some of the tips will be for grown-ups and some will be for kids, but all of them will leave you with more information in your anti-racism toolbelt.

In this episode, you’ll learn more about:

  • How to reevaluate history beyond the heroes/villains, good/bad narrative.
  • Why there’s no such thing as old morals and new morals.
  • How to help white children learn hard history while providing them a chance to identify with the allies and to see how they can be the change today.

This episode contains excerpts from our Patreon Q-and-A sessions. Members of our Patreon community come together once a month to learn together and ask me and my husband Carter their pressing questions about anti-racism, inclusion and what’s going on in the world. To learn more about becoming a Patreon member, visit patreon.com/firstnamebasis.

Bite-Sized Black History

Bite-Sized Black History is a program that empowers you to teach the little ones you love about brilliant Black Americans who have been largely overlooked by our history books. We have two different seasons featuring 12 different people in each season, and each season comes with a workbook with illustrations to color and reflection questions to discuss. 

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Song Credit: “Tomorrow is Far Away” by The Undertowns

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the First Name Basis podcast, Season 6, Episode 13. How can I help my kiddos grapple with hard history?

0:12.5

Hello, First Name Basis, fam, and welcome to Summer School. Summer School is a series where I will share

0:19.7

tips and tidbits that you can be thinking about this summer when it comes to anti-racism.

0:25.9

I know that summer is so busy and so fun and I want you to have everything you need to continue along your anti-racist journey this summer.

0:36.0

So some of these tips will be for you, the grown-ups, and some of

0:39.4

them will be for your kiddos, for your students, for any of the children in your life that you

0:44.4

want to talk to about race, racism, and anti-racism. So let's get our summer on and learn

0:50.8

together in summer school.

1:00.5

Thank you. on and learn together in summer school. Hello, First Name Basis, fam.

1:03.0

I am so glad you are here.

1:06.2

And I'm a little bit sad because that is one of the last times you'll hear our fun summer school

1:12.5

intro because this is our last summer school episode. But that means that we are gearing up for season

1:18.2

seven. So it's like a happy, sad, bittersweet type of thing. So today in our last summer school

1:25.4

episode, we are talking about hard history and we are talking about how to help our children cling to our family values and continue to live our values even when they are learning hard, ugly things that people have done and said throughout history.

1:42.0

One of the things that can be really tough for our children is when

1:46.7

they almost feel like they've been swindled. Like if they've had a teacher who has taught them

1:54.9

about a historical figure and has only taught them positive things or things that they view as

2:00.5

positive things, And then they get

2:03.2

home or they get to the next grade and they learn some tough, sticky, tricky things about this

2:10.0

historical figure. They get frustrated and they can feel confused and they can feel angry and

2:15.6

hurt and all of those big emotions are totally normal

2:19.2

and totally okay and totally welcome. But we want to make sure that while they are holding

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