#59 Ex-Porn Star Teaches How to Get & Stay Rock Hard PLUS The 10 Clit Commandments for Men with Erik Everhard

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 6 November 2024

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Performance anxiety and the inability to make a woman reach orgasm are just some of the many issues so many men struggle with in the bedroom. Today on The Bad Girls Bible, seasoned porn star and sex coach, Erik Everhard joins us to share his 10 Clit Commandments and his tips for keeping an erection. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about how Erik got into porn, how to manage performance anxiety, some strategies to get erect and stay erect (including Erik’s CRUSH Protocol), how sex affects masculinity, and so much more! Erik even breaks down the 10 Clit Commandments as he shares how to perform mind-blowing oral sex and get a woman over the edge to achieve orgasm. Finally, he tells us all about his Everhard Academy and where we can learn more from him. Thanks for listening in!

Key Points From This Episode:

Introducing today’s esteemed guest, Erik Everhard.
Erik shares his journey and what led him to become a porn star.
How to manage performance anxiety as a porn star.
Erectile strategies someone with a penis can use to stay hard.
The biggest mistakes guys make when trying to last longer.
Erik shares his CRUSH Protocol for helping men stay erect.
Why sexual prowess is ingrained in a male’s identity and masculinity.
Erik breaks down his 10 Clit Commandments.
How vibrators can be a man’s biggest teacher when it comes to oral sex.
What the tongue compass is and how to listen to it.
Primary cues to pay attention to when performing oral sex.
Being effective not fancy, the danger of novelty, and why consistency is key.
Common oral sex issues Erik sees with his clients.

Quotes:

“Confidence is going to be a byproduct of competence.” [0:19:19]

There’s no way that you can decouple your sense of masculinity from your performance in the bedroom.” [0:20:35]

“Vibrators are the greatest teaching tool known to men and as men if we can look at what that vibrator is doing, we can extrapolate a lot of things from it that work on women.” [0:26:17]

“Give the pussy what it needs!” [0:35:26]

“It might be tough for you to get honest feedback from a woman that has an emotional connection with you.” [0:43:05]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Erik Everhard — https://www.erikeverhard.com/

Erik Everhard on LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikeverhard/

Erik Everhard on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/groups/erikeverhard

Erik Everhard on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/erikeverhardofficial/

Erik Everhard on X — https://x.com/ERIK_EVERHARD

The Everhard Academy — https://learn.erikeverhard.com/users/sign_in

Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers: A Porn Star’s Guide to Sexual Mastery — https://www.amazon.com/Unleash-Your-Sexual-Superpowers-Mastery/dp/1950367320

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Transcript

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0:00.0	When we think about eating pussy and we think about creating orgasms, we have to understand that orgasms come like waves, okay?
0:08.3	But think about it in terms of, you know, creating a wave out in the sea, right?
0:13.4	This wave of the orgasm.
0:14.6	Well, as we're bringing it closer and closer, we cannot stop what we're doing.
0:20.3	And it doesn't take much to
0:22.9	completely throw that away, right? You could need to readjust your positioning. Gone. She's off
0:29.2	her wave. You might need to get a drink of water. Gone. Off her wave. You might need to wipe
0:34.4	your nose. Whatever asinine thing that you want to do, pardon my French,
0:38.0	don't fucking do it, right? Stay focused and we're going to go through that as we go through
0:41.9	this, right?
0:48.1	This is the Bad Girls Bible podcast. I'm your host, Sean Jameson, and this is the place where I
0:53.8	interview experts and professionals
0:55.5	and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your relationships and have more
1:00.8	enjoyable sex more often. If you're not already subscribed to the Bad Girls Bible podcast,
1:07.3	you just need to open your podcasts app, search for Bad Girls Bible, and hit that
1:12.7	subscribe button so you get the latest episodes delivered straight to you the moment they are
1:18.6	released. Today I'm talking to Eric Everhardt. He's a former porn star and porn director,
1:25.3	having starred in well over 2000 films. Originally from Canada,
1:30.2	Eric is also the founder of the Everhard Academy. It's an exclusive membership for men seeking
1:36.8	to master the bedroom. Eric's also written a book, Unleash Your Sexual Superpowers, A Porn Star's Guide to Sexual Mastery.
1:46.6	Eric, thanks so much for coming on the show.
1:48.8	Oh, thanks for having me, man.
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