So Kim, why do you call yourself an accidental advocate. I wish I didn't have to call myself the

accidental advocate. I call myself the accidental advocate because I now am in a world that I never chose to be and I'll explain the

story in a second but sometimes I realize that our greatest life purposes

choose us.

And so my accidental advocacy started almost over 20 years ago

when I was, my life looked very different than it does today.

I was happily married to my husband of

almost 10 years and we were both like starting you know we both had successful

careers traveled and we were about to start to have a family and Wood got his dream job

with a startup company and he was like a big recycler or whatever and he started

having trouble sleeping.

So he went to his doctor and because he was a guy who needed eight hours asleep.

And Wood was getting like he's waking up at 3 a.m. you know and and it wasn't comfortable for him

So he was a good patient

You know the doctors fixed him that he was a big athlete so they you know

stitched him up when he broke his foot you know they you know brought him back to

health so he did what most people did and he went to his doctor and after a visit he was given a three-week

sample pack of an antidepressants and said it would take the edge off and help him sleep.

And so, and what he went home with the three week that automatically doubled the

dose after week one. I happen to be out of the country those first three weeks, Woody was on the drug. I was down in New Zealand on an

advertising shoot. And so I was not there to see anything that was happening to Woody. And when I came back, I'll never forget, I was like super

excited to see him and have the evening. And he was walked through our back door and he was completely drenched through his blue

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