Good morning everybody have been doing well.

Stephen Mullen you, it is a little bit before my Sunday 11 a.m.

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dating and I find that the majority of men want sex

before marriage. When I decline them and tell them that I don't want to

participate in recreational promiscuity they often accuse me of being

unreasonable.

They pretend that sex before marriage is not a hedonistic or materialistic desire, and that

sex is the only way that men can determine whether or not they want to invest themselves

in marriage and children.

As a single independent woman, I simply can't afford to be a broad for strangers.

There are a few good men who are willing to court me and get to know me before becoming intimate, it seems

like respect for women and themselves comes naturally to them.

Why do so many men want to have sex as soon as possible?

Is it really that pleasurable, or is it their way of avoiding a deeper and more meaningful bond?

That is a fine question and I appreciate the space to answer.

Very interesting.

So there's two things here that are not to me totally the same. So the first is sex before marriage and then there is another

one that says recreational promiscuity. So I'm not going to say these are two extremes, but these are not two things on the same exact continuum.

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