5484 Men Won't Commit to Women in their 30s!
Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux
Stefan Molyneux
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🗓️ 30 April 2024
⏱️ 33 minutes
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"Talked to a young 30s woman today who said her and her friends would all love to get married and have kids but feel forced to invest in their careers because they fear it won't happen and they'll have to support themselves their whole lives.
"All the guys they date are non-committal and want to continue partying instead of 'settling down'. It's true they can likely select from a different group of men, but I also see the concern to have your own way of making money in the meantime."
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| 0:00.0 | Just a sad, sad tweet today from a woman named Rachel. |
| 0:07.0 | And yeah, it's really, really tragic. |
| 0:10.0 | She says, former atheist, ex-feminist, not traditional wife, mother, writer, biologist, |
| 0:15.0 | nature lover, blah, blah, blah, and she went kind of viral today because she said, |
| 0:20.0 | talked to young 30s woman today who said |
| 0:23.1 | her and her friends would all love to get married and have kids but feel forced to invest in |
| 0:28.7 | their careers because they fear it won't happen, and they'll have to support themselves their |
| 0:33.2 | whole lives. |
| 0:34.4 | All the guys they date are non-committal and want to continue partying instead of, quote, |
| 0:38.9 | settling down. It's true they can likely select from a different group of men, but I also see |
| 0:43.5 | the concern to have your own way of making money in the meantime. And she went on to say, |
| 0:51.2 | we also talked about why they keep finding these men, and it seems to mostly come down |
| 0:56.7 | to the women thinking, quote, well, they can't possibly want to do this forever, and hoping they'll |
| 1:01.0 | change and want the family life. And Elon Musk actually replied and said, men are favoring hedonistic |
| 1:09.4 | sex over children too much. And Rachel replied, it doesn't seem to be just sex, but also freedom, travel, and the party lifestyle. And someone, Jane said, they have been kind. Feminism has ordered the natural order of things, so I think that's referring to the women. Rachel said it means it sounds to me like they're ready to give it up, though. They'd much rather have families. And the woman wrote to, I'm almost 31, and I'm still waiting for |
| 1:32.6 | marriage, if that's God's will. God has blessed me greatly in my work, and I do it to his glory by using |
| 1:37.3 | my gifts and talents. I'm thankful that I'm able to support myself. I'd never go so far as to say |
| 1:42.6 | it's better, but it's where I am. |
| 1:45.4 | And a man says, it's hard not to respond with frustration to this as a 30-year-old man |
| 1:53.4 | who has a job, has faith, and only dated to marry unsuccessfully. I think men and women |
| 1:59.2 | are equally guilty of hedonistic lifestyles. |
| 2:01.4 | Gender blaming slash chicken or egg conversion, conversation seems unproductive. |
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