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Highest Self Podcast®

514: How To Stop Being A People Pleaser And Claim Your Inner Bad Bitch with Rosie Acosta

Highest Self Podcast®

Sahara Rose

Spirituality, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

4.86.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2023

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

This week on Highest Self Podcast I am back once again with my bestie, Rosie, to dive into how to transform from being a people pleaser to being a bad bitch with crystal clear boundaries. We are both sharing all about our own journeys and pulling back the curtains on what this evolution looks like. 

 

This episode is all about…

  • Signs that you are a people pleaser and why you might not realize it

  • How to go from people pleaser → bad bitch

  • How to give from your heart and not from wanting to be liked

  • Different ways people pleasing shows up in different relationships

  • Paying attention to your energy when giving/receiving

  • Discernment when saying yes

  • The ultimate fear of a people pleaser

  • The power of reciprocal relationships, acknowledgment, and properly holding space

  • What it truly means to be a "bad bitch"

  • And so so much more!

 

In your trauma also lies your gifts – so being a people pleaser and being able to see things from a higher perspective and solve everyone's problems lies many skills that are powerful tools for you to use to your advantage. Now you just need to navigate the balancing act of being there for those you love while simultaneously fully showing up for yourself and honoring + creating boundaries that empower you. 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Bad bitch energy is, you know, they say bitch, babe in total control of herself, the

0:05.7

acronym.

0:06.7

Oh my God.

0:07.7

But to me, it is someone who is authentically themselves.

0:12.2

They are expressed, they are bold, they are empowered, they are self-sourced, they're

0:16.9

not seeking outside of themselves for validation.

0:20.4

And they stand out in their own unique way that is quite inspiring and refreshing to be

0:26.2

around because they're not seeking that.

0:28.4

Like if you think about the people pleaser, it's like, are you good, are you good?

0:31.3

Are you good?

0:32.3

It's trying to get everyone to like them, which actually makes you dislike them because you

0:35.2

don't even know who they are.

0:36.3

Whereas the bad bitch is like, this is what I'm going to do, so I'm going to do it.

0:40.4

And that's magnetic because we want to be like that.

0:44.3

So we actually think that's going to draw people away, but we're like, holy shit, like how

0:48.7

do you have those boundaries like that?

0:50.2

Welcome back to the highest self podcast.

1:03.6

My name is Sahara Rose, and this podcast is all about taking spirituality and making

1:08.2

it modern, grounded, fun, real, relatable so we can actually serve our needs.

1:13.5

And I love bringing my besties in who you're going to hear today, Rosie Acosta, to talk

1:18.2

about the subjects that we are voice noting about, that we are pondering about and curious

1:23.5

about because the truth is what we're experiencing, I'm going to guess you've experienced too.

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