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Famous at Home

#51: How Emotional Safety is the Key to Raising Kids Who Live, Love, and Lead Well

Famous at Home

Josh + Christi Straub

Parenting, Relationships, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.9653 Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2018

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Does parenting sometimes feel complicated to you?

You can't even leave the hospital before having to make a decision on whether or not you're going to immunize your child. Think about some of the other choices we have to make as parents in the twenty-first century.
~  “Is it okay that our baby sleep in bed with us?”
~  “Should we let our baby cry it out?”
~  “Is spanking okay? Or should we do time-outs?"
~  “How do I respond to a temper tantrum?”
~  “Wait, we're supposed to do time-ins? What's a time-in?"
~  “Should I stay home with the kids or put them in day care?”
~  “Should we homeschool or send our kids to a private or public school?”
~  “How much screen time do I let my kids have?”
To be quite honest, we were exhausted. That's why we decided to start with the end in mind. With the outcomes we most desire in our kids when they become adults. What we found is that emotional safety—more than any other factor—is scientifically linked to raising kids who live, love, and lead well.

In other words, the posture from which we parent matters infinitely more than the techniques of parenting. What is emotional safety?

In this episode, we answer this question and discuss:

* The Golden Rule of relationships
* Four walls of a Safe House (exploration, protection, grace, truth)
* Four parenting styles (BFF, helicopter, boss, religious)
* How to lead in grace and follow up in truth as we discipline
* Why being a parent isn't rocket science; it's just brain surgery.

Show Notes:

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Transcript

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0:00.0

We all have family picture frames.

0:11.8

Who are the people in yours?

0:13.4

I'm Josh.

0:14.4

And I'm Christy.

0:15.8

In This Together is a podcast where we discuss topics related to today's family.

0:23.4

We also go behind the scenes to share stories from our own crooked picture frame. And we interview guests to discover how their

0:28.5

stories can give us insight on becoming families who live, love, and lead well. Because you're

0:34.3

not alone. We're in this together. This episode of the In This Together podcast

0:43.1

is brought to you by Lifeway Women. For more information about all the events Lifeway

0:48.4

Women has to offer, visit lifeway.com slash women's events. Welcome back to the In This Together podcast. Today we get to have a

0:59.1

discussion about something you've probably heard us refer to a lot and yet we realized we've never

1:06.6

actually done a podcast episode explaining what it is. And it is emotional safety. It's probably

1:15.0

something you've heard Josh reference especially the most. It's something he did his doctoral

1:19.8

dissertation on and then wrote a book called Safe House about how emotional safety is the key

1:25.4

to raising kids who live, love, and lead well.

1:29.5

So we're going to talk about it today really candidly. I'm going to interview him,

1:33.6

you, okay? All right, let's do this. And I, you're in the hot seat, and I want to talk

1:39.4

real practically. Emotional safety is something I had never heard of before, and that's probably 95% of you listening.

1:47.0

So I want to know what it is, why it's important, and what practically does that mean for me as a mom, as a wife, as a friend, sister, daughter.

1:56.8

How does this impact my personal everyday life?

1:59.7

Because Josh landed on this concept, and I want you to explain Josh, sort of the background behind it.

2:07.8

So where, how did it all start?

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