51: Division of Labor with Eve Rodsky

Struggle Care

KC Davis

Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 750 Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2023

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

This is the show that will make you take a closer look at how the work is shared in your household. The problem cannot be solved by simply handing out to-do lists. I’m joined by Eve Rodsky, who is working to change society one partnership at a time by promoting a new 21st-century solution to an age-old problem. Still today, women shoulder two-thirds or more of the unpaid domestic work and child care for their homes and families, and this burden is taking its toll! Again, there are deeper issues to consider. Let’s talk about this topic with Eve! Show Highlights: ● How Eve came to write her book, Fair Play ● How many wives/moms have an automatically assigned role in their homes ● How the shift in marriage occurs where women do most of the “invisible work” ● How Eve’s book is structured with information and practical ways to divide labor ● How a story about the Tooth Fairy illustrates the mindset shifts that need to happen in both partners to have fair play ● Why couples get into a measuring contest about whose job is harder ● Why we need to break down harmful norms that hurt us all and be clear about each partner’s role ● Is your home infested by RATs? (randomly assigned tasks) ● Why accountability and trust are vital in home organization ● Why the mental load is more taxing in most cases than the actual execution of tasks ● How to view boundaries with a fresh and freeing perspective and find your “unicorn space” Resources and Links: Connect with Eve Rodsky: Website, Instagram (Fair Play Life), Instagram (Eve), and TikTok Connect with KC: Website, TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook Get KC’s book, How to Keep House While Drowning We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on our website: www.strugglecare.com/promo-codes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:31.7	Hello, you sentient balls of stardust.
1:35.8	Welcome to Struggle Care, the podcast about self-care and other things.
1:37.3	I don't have a tagline yet, Eve.
1:39.7	So I just wing it, and I didn't even think of one today.
1:42.3	You'll have to excuse my frog voice.
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