Hey everyone, thanks for joining us for the Fear Smarage podcast. This week we

are pulling an episode out of the archives, which happens to be one of my

absolute all-time favorite podcast episodes, namely because I think the

material is really helpful, but you get to see a side of Selena and that is her

saltiness that I absolutely love. We like to joke and have a good time, but in

this episode I noticed there were a few times that she was taking little jabs

that they just went over my head. She is just so smart. Sometimes I just miss

how fun she is. So anyway, we are talking about phrases to remove from your

marriage vocabulary. And even though this is our podcast and even though I know

this material, I found it helpful as I relist into it. So even if you've heard

this episode, I trust that it will be a timely reminder for you as well. So with

that said, here we go.

So we've been talking about habits and rhythms and all kinds of things around

cultivating good soil in your marriage. And I feel like this is a real tangible

episode of that we're calling five hurtful phrases to remove from your

marriage. So these are basically weeds I would say that are in the soil of your

marriage. And they're all rooted in the Bible that we have versus that have

illuminated these truths and we're excited to dive into each of these with you.

And I kind of see these phrases as almost, they're almost like red flags,

right? So whenever these phrases kind of cross our path, they kind of come into

our marriage again. Yes, yes. It's an opportunity to say, okay, something is going

on underneath the surface. And it's an indicator. So these are five phrases

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