#5: BDSM, Jealousy & Pegging: Sex Q&A With Dr. Kat Van Kirk

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2017

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Today sex therapist Dr. Kat Van Kirk answers listeners sex questions on BDSM, pegging, jealously in relationships, the porn "problem" and many more. If you got questions you'd like answered anonymously by a sex expert in a future episode, please send your question to [email protected].

Show Highlights

2.35 - How to deal with a man that is "jealous" of your vibrator.

6.25 - How to approach using a strapon with your man and why strapon sex is both healthy and fun.

8.20 - What you need to know about anal lube. Why silcone based lube is best for anal.

8.50 - The do's and don'ts of mixing alcohol and sex.

9.40 - Why guys are afraid of pegging.

14.05 - Dr. Kat talks about the problem with lower testosterone rates in men and why it's happening to so many guys.

16.20 - We discuss how porn causes problems in relationships AND why porn can sometimes be a good thing in your relationship.

23.10 - Practical tips on how to explore BDSM with your man.

24.50 - Why the submissive is always in control.

25.50 - Safe words and the traffic light system.

27.10 - Why BDSM doesn't have to be "hardcore" but can be a little bit more subtle and light.

32.50 - Practical tips for moving past infidelity.

More About Dr. Kat Van Kirk

You can find Dr. Kat at http://drkat.com or on social media:
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drkatvankirk
Twitter - https://twitter.com/DrKatSexChat
Pinterest - https://www.pinterest.com/drkatvk/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/drkatvk/
Tumblr - http://drkatsexchat.tumblr.com/

Transcript

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0:00.0	This is the Bad Girls Bible Podcast. I'm your host Sean Jameson and this is the place where I interview
0:17.0	experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your
0:22.2	relationships and have more enjoyable sex more often.
0:25.9	Today I'm talking to Dr. Kat Van Kirk who is a clinical sexologist and marriage and family
0:31.2	therapist who helps couples and individuals have more fulfilling sex lives and relationships.
0:36.0	And by the way if you want to learn my most important sex tips and techniques that will bring you and your partner back arching, spine tingling, toe curling
0:44.4	orgasms that will keep them coming back for more. You'll find them in my discrete and private
0:49.2	newsletter. Just go to Badgirls Bible.com slash newsletter, enter your name and email address and I will send these sex tips straight to your inbox.
0:58.0	Kat, thanks so much for coming on the Bad Girls Bible Podcast.
1:02.0	Oh, thank you. I'm so happy to be here. Great so today
1:06.1	we're going to do something a bit different to my regular podcasts I've got a bunch of
1:11.3	emails from people with questions and problems and issues and we're going to answer them for them.
1:17.0	Before we get to that, I just love to ask you, Kat, a little bit about yourself and how you got into helping people improve
1:26.4	their relationships and sex lives.
1:29.1	Thank you. Basically I knew since I was, um, since I was 19 pretty much. I'm 44 now proudly and I took a human
1:40.0	sexual behavior class in university and just kind of fell in love with the idea
1:46.0	of wanting to work with people around sexuality and relationships and
1:50.6	because I actually grew up in a very repressive, very restrictive home myself and you know really realize that no one should have to go through that and to be able to have free access to you know hopefully entertaining and
2:07.0	informational education around sexuality would help people loosen up and relax and enjoy sex instead of
2:16.4	you know creating a lot of anxiety and and having issues with it so that's been my that's been my life's purpose.
2:25.5	Great, do you want to jump in with I read the first email?
2:30.0	You got it, bring it on. All righty. Thank you so much Sean. You know you're heaven sent to
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