495: Why Love Is So Difficult - And How It Can Not Be with Rainier Wylde
Highest Self Podcast®
Sahara Rose
4.8 • 6.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 May 2023
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
Lately, I have found myself fascinated by the topic of love – the most basic yet complex human emotion. Even beyond emotions, it's a vibration and a lens through which we see life. Love is my number one core value. And it is the thing we all want most in life.
This week on Highest Self Podcast I had the honor to sit down with fellow writer, teacher, poet, and coach, Rainier Wylde to explore what it means to be the true embodiment of love, how to give a receive it, and WHY it can also be the most difficult thing to find and keep.
We discuss the inevitable ending of every love story, polyamorous relationships, the philosophy and mystery of love, the natural death and rebirth cycles of life, and SO much more.
I hope this episode cracks your heart wide open like it did for me. Whether you are dating, married, divorced, widowed, or single – this episode is for you because love is a universal language that we all know and can benefit from understanding on it's deepest level. Enjoy!
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| 0:00.0 | It's almost like we've gone to this other extreme of like any form of romance or affection |
| 0:07.6 | or desiring to merge is seen as like codependent and bad and wrong. |
| 0:11.4 | Oh, I'm like you. |
| 0:12.6 | And you know, I spent my 20s being a sad, I'd sing or a song for lovers. |
| 0:17.2 | And I've got to be honest, that's still where my heart is. |
| 0:19.6 | I'm a romantic at heart. |
| 0:21.6 | I do think that there is something that is a larger cultural motif. |
| 0:26.6 | And one of those things is that when all the talking points, when it's very different |
| 0:29.9 | difficult to talk to one another, that statistics or pragmatics become the law of the land. |
| 0:37.6 | And I think that we are so, it's so difficult to actually communicate with each other because |
| 0:43.6 | everything is a pressure cooker. |
| 0:45.4 | Yeah, there's so much water under every communication. |
| 0:49.6 | That I think that we kind of speak in pragmatics. |
| 0:52.8 | Love has sort of devolved into a very transactional thing. |
| 0:56.4 | I think it's reduced love to kind of like a grocery store marketplace mentality. |
| 1:01.0 | And it's like I'm craving some food. |
| 1:02.6 | I'm going to go down to the grocery store and get some soup. |
| 1:04.7 | Right. |
| 1:05.7 | Swipe on an app. |
| 1:06.7 | Right. |
| 1:07.7 | Instead of, you know, writing someone a sonnet, they just send the fire emoji. |
| 1:13.4 | Hi, it's the horror rose and welcome back to the highest self podcast. |
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