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ADHD reWired

476 | When Potential and Opportunity Misalign with Nate

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

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4.7919 Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Today, Eric is joined by Nate! Nate is a program manager for the Department of Defense and a graduate student at Columbia University. He received an ADHD diagnosis in 2016 at age 24 and a bi-polar diagnosis in 2022. After better understanding his mental abilities and inabilities, he realized how incompatible he was with the person the world expected him to be. This experience has led Nate down a path to highlight the tremendous potential and value that neurodivergent individuals can bring to an organization despite the story someone’s resume may or may not tell. You’ll hear about how Nate found success despite being ‘punted’ from 5 schools, how education and opportunities are geared towards the ‘majority’, having a responsibility to our community to enable the changes we’d like to see, and how Nate received his ADHD diagnosis during active duty. Then, you’ll also hear how being neurodivergent can bring different perspectives to the table, why age or rank doesn’t increase or decrease the worth of someone’s perspective, being curious and resilient, and that you don’t have to have a degree to offer a valuable insight. Get in touch with Nate at [email protected] Other Questions/Topics Answered in this Episode: [00:02:16] How did Nate, a late-diagnosed ADHDer, become a program manager for the Department of Defense? [00:03:09] “Quantification does not equal the qualification” [00:5:55] Why was Leadership as Nate’s undergrad important? What about college? [00:18:34] What does it take for someone who’s been fired multiple times, tried higher-education multiple times, to have that resilient spirit to keep on going? [00:26:52] “I never looked at your rank or your position and thought that made you smarter or have a better opinion than me.” [00:27:12] Speaking up and presenting a different view of the world in a diplomatic way [00:29:14] Experiencing pushback, managing those encounters, and reflecting on those who are pushing back [00:31:09] How does one navigate a scenario where they’ve pushed too hard or misread a situation? [00:35:53] Nate shares his experiences with bi-polar and how it shows up for him [00:42:28] How does Nate manage the cyclical nature of bi-polar? [00:48:14] Closing thoughts, the importance of curiosity and resilience, and how you can reach Nate Resources & Honorable Mentions: “Your Potential can only rise to the occasions its presented” - Nate “Sometimes it is the people no one can imagine anything of who do the things no one can imagine.” - Alan Turing Book - - An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness by Kay Redfield Jamison () Check out the Other Podcasts on the ADHD reWired Podcast Network: ADHD Essentials with Brendan Mahan Hacking Your ADHD with Will Curb ADHD Diversified with MJ Siemens Have you heard about our Adult Study Hall Community? Go to adultstudyhall.com to join our ADHD-friendly body-doubling community! Interested in group coaching? Go to coachingrewired.com to get all the up-to-date information on the upcoming season of ADHD reWired's award-winning Coaching & Accountability groups!

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0:00.0

AID rewired episode 476. This is the podcast for those of us with really good

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intentions and a slightly wandering attention. I'm Eric Tivers.

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I'm a licensed clinical social worker

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by training and a coach by design.

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I'm your host and I have ADHD.

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ADHD rewired is a more than just podcast.

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We are a community. We are wired for connection and you are not alone.

0:26.5

Go to ADHD rewire.com to learn how you can join us in our free and secret Facebook group.

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Get additional resources for every episode,

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including links to any resources we mentioned on today's show.

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You can support us on Patreon, sign up for email newsletter,

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you can request podcast postcards to distribute to your clients and support groups.

0:45.2

Learn all about our award-winning coaching accountability groups, you can co-work with us in our

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adult study hall virtual membership community.

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You can do all of these things by going to our websites at ADHD rewire.com.

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We know that starting is the hardest part, so let's get started.

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Welcome back to another episode of ADHD rewired.

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Today's guess is Nate. Nate is a program manager for the

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Department of Defense and a graduate student at Columbia University. He

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received an ADHD diagnosis in 2016 at the age of 24 and a bipolar disorder diagnosis last year.

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After a better understanding his mental abilities and inabilities, he realized how incompatible he was with the person

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the world expected him to be.

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