#46 BDSM 101: No 50 Shades of Grey B******t with Dan and Dawn

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2019

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

On the show today we welcome Dan and Dawn Williams, master-slave couple, kink enthusiasts podcast hosts and authors of the new book Living M/S! Our guests unpack their own experiences of discovering their submissive and dominant sides and how they found each other and each other's limits.

They explain some basics about the master-slave dynamic and how it fits into the broader world of BDSM and kink play. They explain the important role of trust and the things that are pivotal in making a relationship like theirs work. We talk a bit about the events, parties and activities which they enjoy and Dan and Dawn are so open and honest, explaining the erotic nature of their lives.

The conversation also covers, shame, abusive relationships and how sharing stories, using cards and watching porn can help certain couples.

Key Points From This Episode

Dan and Dawn's awakening to their dominant and submissive sides.
A little bit about how their master-salve relationship works.
Earning trust and taking responsibility for mistakes.
Contrasting Dawns and Dan's average day with other relationships.
Parties, dungeons and the BDSM play that the couple enjoy.
The parts of play that each of them engage with.
Considering the erotic and non-erotic elements of play.
Some of the issues of shame related to submission.
Comparing a sub-dom relationship with an abusive relationship.
The helpful act of sharing naughty stories and porn.
And much more!

Tweetables

“In our case, it happens to be a male led relationship where I happen to be in charge. What that means is that I take responsibility for everything in the relationship.” [0:03:45]

“If something needs to be addressed, it’s addressed head on instead of sideways. It’s a very authentic relationship where we’ve decided, what do we want this relationship to be.” [0:11:05]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

Erotic Awakening Podcast — http://www.eroticawakening.com

Dan and Dawn Email — [email protected].

Living MS — https://www.amazon.com/Living-Masters-slaves-Their-Relationships/dp/1610981952/

The Kink Starter — http://www.eroticawakening.com/kinkstarter/

Transcript

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0:00.0	We used to share naughty stories.
0:02.1	So like either I would read something
0:04.9	that really turned to be on or I mean literally we were sharing
0:08.9	as friends, we were sharing our porn collection
0:12.0	and found out we had some of the same porn.
0:14.7	Or I would show a picture and go, you know what really times me on about this and I would share and
0:20.2	or we would write stories together.
0:22.3	So I would write a chapter or a paragraph,
0:25.0	and then he would write a paragraph.
0:27.0	And then the rules are, is that you can only write stuff
0:30.0	that you're willing to do and it turns you on.
0:33.0	This is the Bad Girls Bible Podcast.
0:40.0	I'm your host Sean Jameson and this is the place where I
0:44.3	interview experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you how to
0:48.7	dramatically improve your relationships and have more enjoyable sex more often.
0:54.0	And by the way, if you want to learn my most important sex tips and techniques that will bring you and your partner
0:59.7	back arching, spine tingling, toe curling orgasms that will keep them coming back for more, you will find
1:05.0	them in my discrete and private newsletter.
1:07.9	Just go to badgirls Bible.com slash newsletter, enter your name and email address and I will send these sex tips straight to your inbox.
1:16.1	Today I'm talking to Dan and Dawn from the erotic awakening podcast. Dan and Dawn are a master slave couple since 2001 and have presented at over a hundred
1:28.0	events around North America. They are the authors of Living MS, that's Master Slave, a book for Masters, Slaves, and their
1:37.3	relationships, as well as co-hosts of the Erotic Awakening Internet Radio show, an educational podcast that explores all things erotic.
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