445 - Yes, Some People Need Drama

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

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Sexuality, Self-improvement, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education

4.9 • 935 Ratings

🗓️ 24 October 2023

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Today we're diving deep into the world of drama! Have you ever met someone who just seems to thrive on it? Or maybe you've seen a bit of that drama-lover in yourself? We're going to be talking about why some of us need drama in our lives (there's science behind it!), and discussing some of the behaviors and whys behind a need for drama. If this show is helpful to you, consider joining our amazing community of like-minded listeners at patreon.com/Multiamory. You can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, bonus episodes, and more! Get hair care that is completely customized to your hair and your life AND get 15% off at Prose.com/multiamoryQuality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, Uberlube and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORYConnect with your partner every day using Paired. Download the app at paired.com/MULTI.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/multi and get 10% off your first month. Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I think anyone that we've been talking about or any of our friends or
0:07.4	acquaintances that we're thinking about I don't think any of these people
0:10.6	have just zero pain and they're completely making up the whole victim thing.
0:15.2	Like I do think there's real pain there and there's most likely legitimate pain there
0:20.6	as well. It's just that there's kind of this perfect storm where it gets really skewed and
0:26.4	exaggerated and exaggerated victimhood in particular I think it's one strategy
0:31.3	again for being heard in an extremely noisy busy
0:36.5	distracting landscape like social media or the internet for instance saying something like I had a friend who was really close to me and they
0:45.1	behaved in this way that really let me down and really hurt my feelings.
0:49.8	It may not get the same attention and care from others or from the algorithm as saying something
0:56.2	like, oh, this fake friend betrayed me and they stabbed me in the back and they're dead to me now
1:00.6	and if you want to stay my friend you better stop being friends
1:02.6	with them too.
1:05.6	Welcome to the multi-amory podcast. I'm Jace. I'm Emily and I'm Dettaker.
1:11.4	We believe in looking to the future of relationships,
1:14.3	not maintaining the status quo of the past.
1:17.3	Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging,
1:20.9	casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you, and we're here for you. I did.
1:40.0	forcing me to for myself to fit.
1:47.0	On this episode of the Multiannery Podcast, we are diving deep into the world of drama. Have you ever met someone who just seems to thrive on it?
1:51.0	Or maybe you've seen a bit of that drama lover in yourself.
1:54.7	You could think of this episode as the sequel to our episode 436, where we unravel
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