444-How Opposites became Perfect Partners: Julie's Transformation Story
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 16 August 2024
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
We're excited to bring you a story of a woman who was nearing the empty nester phase and, if she was really honest with herself, wasn't looking forward to it at all. Her oldest had already left and grieving that separation added a strain on the marriage. Julie generally felt frustrated and unhappy and blamed her husband for the distance.
However, she did a very wise thing. She realized she is the only one who can change anything in the marriage by changing herself. She decided to take us up on our free Clarity Call offer and ended up feeling like she got a counseling session for free just by talking to our Clarity advisor.
Thankfully, she didn't stop there and decided she wanted to join the program to gain the tools she needed to change everything in their connection. Which is exactly what happened. She started out feeling that she and her husband were opposites and maybe weren't even meant to get along. And thank God, through this work, she discovered her husband is a man who is actually complementary, she deeply loves, and even misses when they are apart.
With love,
Belah & Team
PS - If you want to try out a Clarity Call like Julie did, here is the link: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
PPS - Here is a quote from a (different) recent graduate:
"Once I learned the 3 basic needs for my husband, I had a new understanding… He started to open up to me and we made more progress in a few weeks than we had in years."
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| 0:00.0 | One thing that I was trying to do is be more spontaneous because that's not my personality and it is his. |
| 0:05.9 | I spontaneously agreed to go out one evening and meet up with some of his work friends. |
| 0:11.9 | You know, everything in me says, no, I don't want to leave. |
| 0:14.5 | No, I want my pajamas. |
| 0:16.0 | I heard him the next day telling his boss, he said, yeah, Julie's like turning over a new leaf. |
| 0:23.0 | She's really spontaneous now. I don't know. I just grinned this big grin. He's noticing. |
| 0:31.8 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and |
| 0:39.3 | truths about intimacy. Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:46.4 | Delight Your Marriage. |
| 0:52.9 | Hi there. |
| 0:54.3 | It is wonderful to have you at the Delight Your Marriage conversation today. |
| 0:59.8 | This is Bella Rose. |
| 1:00.7 | I'm author coach, trainer. |
| 1:03.6 | Why do we do Delight Your Marriage? |
| 1:05.4 | Anytime I am talking to somebody that maybe I've never met before and they asked me what I do and I share. |
| 1:12.8 | And I try to just let them know most of us did not have good role models. |
| 1:21.3 | How are we supposed to have a wonderfully encouraging, playful, passionate, connected, united, joyful marriage when we have |
| 1:32.9 | literally never seen it. It might have been from our parents or cousins or grandparents or |
| 1:40.9 | whatever. Have we ever seen it? And then the relationships we have seen are |
| 1:46.9 | terribly broken, whether it's those that are directly related to us or the stories we see on |
| 1:54.9 | movies and TV and dramas because drama is always messy. And people respond immaturely to hard things in movies and TV, |
| 2:06.1 | etc. So Delight Your Marriage is out there to try to help people gain the tools and |
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