444. From F*ck Buddies to Parenthood: Shan Boodram Tells All

Almost 30

Krista Williams & Lindsey Simcik

Alternative Health, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.5 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 20 July 2021

⏱️ 95 minutes

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Summary

Sexy mama and relationship/sex expert Shan Boodram, hangs out with K+ L for some real talk on motherhood and how her sexuality, body image, and sex life changed during pregnancy and postpartum. Shan Boodram, aka Shan Boody, Talks Motherhood & Sex Empowerment with Almost 30. You’ll be relieved to hear that Shan’s new role as a mother has not diluted her thirst and curiosities around sex, relationships, and love. Nothing is off the table in this hilarious, jaw-to-the-floor chat about getting the D with a baby in her belly and giving her partner, Jared, TMI on her breastfeeding journey while still trying to nipplegasm at night. “So much of your success in your relationships is not just based on communication and what you say – it’s what you don’t say.” - Shan Boodram, Sexologist Plus, the lowdown on open relationships and the different ways you can explore things with your SO as your dynamic shifts. We also talk about: Navigating “mommy police” and creating boundaries with her online community Journey through pregnancy and post-partum Sexuality during pregnancy and parenthood Getting slutty, jealousy, and insecurities in partnership Exploring an open relationship on your terms Resources: Website: shanboodram.com Instagram: @shanboody Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCR1aFO8kPS2WgdOfvU0zpag Read: The Game of Desire by Shan Boodram Read: The Art of Living by Erich Fromm Read: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Esther Perel Related content: 240: “Shan Boodram on Sex, Relationships, + Dating with Confidence” 298: “In Bed with Expert Shan Boodram Live–Talking Sex Relationships Communication” Find more to love at almost30.com! Upcoming events: Almost 30 Virtual Day Camp. Sign up for our free event here: https://learn.authenticaudience.co/camp-almost-30-2021/ Join our community: almost30.com/membership facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups Learn more: almost30.com/learn almost30.com/podcast-pro instagram.com/yourpodcastpro Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy Chartable - https://chartable.com/privacy Podsights - https://podsights.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I'm used to going out in the world and people looking at me in the eyes.
0:08.6	I'm used to having no one with the attention to ship but as a person it's literally always
0:16.4	the belly.
0:17.4	So they're automatically registering you not as a woman but as a vessel of current
0:21.0	number.
0:22.0	I'm here sitting there in those moments.
0:24.0	I'm like wow I don't feel desired and it's a pandemic too so there was no energy for
0:29.0	the world.
0:30.0	I'm just feeling these sexual and then on top of that my partner also was saying to me like
0:34.2	I don't really are sexually fun but that was the difficult to go through.
0:38.3	So that was the art of maintaining energy through conversation is an art.
0:42.2	It's truly an art.
0:43.2	Today has been very it's the interviews we've had have been very energy giving.
0:47.6	Yes life giving for sure.
0:49.6	Sure.
0:50.6	Lately and I feel like every conversation well not every but every there's a potential
0:56.8	where like you can kind of control and yes you know what I mean yes it might not be
1:02.2	interesting.
1:03.2	Everyone listening you guys have potential you all have potential that we can control.
1:09.6	But it's like how do I bring it out myself rather than allow the other to maybe suck
1:15.0	my energy which doesn't happen very often at all but you know what I mean all right
1:19.9	tell me more.
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