437: Balancing Marriage, Parenting, and Life’s Big Decisions
Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs
Karen Stubbs
4.9 • 936 Ratings
🗓️ 8 October 2024
⏱️ 31 minutes
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Summary
When your kids are little, the challenges of day-to-day parenting often pit one spouse against another. Today Karen and Emily are answering questions from weary moms. They discuss practical ways you can connect with your spouse, strategies for handling the stress that comes with parenting young children, and remind us of the importance of prioritizing our husband’s needs during this season of life.
Episode Recap:
4:50 BIG announcement coming later this month - get the app to be the first to know
10:45 How do we find time to connect as spouses with 3 little kids at home?
15:05: Help! My 3 yr old twins are pitting us against one another!
17:14 Our marriage is struggling! We need help.
22:20 Ask your spouse: what is one way I can love you better this month?
25:20 I want to move back to where my family lives. What do you think we should do?
Scripture for Reflection:
Mark 10:9 (NIV): “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
Questions for Discussion:
- How do you currently prioritize connection with your spouse while raising young children? What practical strategies have worked for you, and where do you feel there’s room for improvement?
- How do you and your spouse handle conflict when your children (especially young ones) try to pit you against one another? Do you feel like you have a united front, or is this something you struggle with?
- What’s one way you could better support your husband’s needs during this busy season of life? Have you asked him how you can show love to him in the coming weeks?
- When making major family decisions, such as moving or changing jobs, how do you and your spouse communicate and weigh each other’s opinions? What steps do you take to ensure that both of your voices are heard?
Resources:
- Download the BOAW Moms app for FREE [App Store] [Google Play]
- Watch the Parenting Together curriculum in the app! [App Store] [Google Play]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | My husband and I have totally different approaches in parenting styles. |
| 0:03.7 | Our current dynamic is mom bad cop versus daddy greatest cop ever. |
| 0:07.9 | I'm emotionally drained and get sick to my stomach when my girls look at me and scream, |
| 0:12.3 | no I don't want mommy is there any |
| 0:14.2 | hope for us yes there's always hope okay here's the deal I can totally |
| 0:19.9 | relate to the good cop bad cop. I was always the bad cop, always. Greg was always |
| 0:25.8 | the good cop. I don't think Greg was ever the bad cop. But the difference is |
| 0:30.5 | is the good cop always backed me up as the bad cop. |
| 0:35.0 | Even whenever he wasn't home and he would get home later and |
| 0:40.0 | y'all would complain to him, mommy did this or whatever, he would just say, I agree with mommy. |
| 0:44.7 | You know, he always had my back. |
| 0:46.6 | So if your husband's going to be the good cop, that's totally fine because that normally happens, |
| 0:51.4 | because the mom's with the children the majority of the time |
| 0:53.9 | but he just needs to know he needs to have your back at all times. |
| 0:57.8 | Welcome to Wire Talk where we encourage and equip moms by answering practical questions about motherhood. |
| 1:04.4 | We want to help instill God's truth in your heart, so you can experience more joy and peace |
| 1:09.5 | on your journey of motherhood. |
| 1:10.9 | Are you ready for some truth? |
| 1:12.3 | Let's dive in. |
| 1:15.2 | Well hello and welcome to Wire Talk. I'm your host Emily Krosic |
| 1:19.4 | and with me is my mom Karen Stubbs. |
| 1:22.0 | Hey guys, how are you? Hey Emily. I Karen Stubbs. Hey guys, how are you? |
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