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43. I Am No Longer Convincing Myself Out Of What I Want: A Lesson On Getting Your Desires

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Olanikee Osibowale

Education, Self-improvement

4.9861 Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2019

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I share my own personal struggle I had this week of convincing myself out of what I wanted and how I came back to standing firm in what I wanted. Have you tried to convince yourself out of what you wanted?  If so how did you feel? What did you learn? Let me know by sharing and tagging me on Instagram @OlanikeeOsi and @SelfishBabes

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Hey love, welcome to the self. from your Selfish Babe is a personal development and woman's lifestyle brand dedicated to women learning how to selfishly and authentically love them. Hey beautiful Selfish Babe, it is your girl, Nike O.C.

1:01.0

And I'm sure you want to share this message of your personal desires and what you want.

1:07.8

What you want is placed inside of your heart for a specific reason.

1:12.2

Do not sway from what you want.

1:15.0

A couple days ago, I had to make a decision.

1:19.0

I had to make a decision, and I remember when I was making that decision I was kind of

1:24.4

convincing myself that oh this decision is good because of so and so but it really

1:30.4

wasn't what I exactly wanted it was actually the opposite of what I wanted, but I was convincing myself that that's okay too.

1:38.0

And then the next day I was like, no, but it's not what I want. And so what I did was I quieted myself in meditation for about 10 minutes and I said Vanessa O'enique, what is it that you want? And I thought about it and I said this is what I want. And then I began writing in my journal of exactly what it is that I wanted.

2:00.0

And then I wrote some affirmation, some selfish affirm

2:03.4

myself.

2:05.0

Because of that introspection, because of that quiet time,

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