#429: Community Member Coaching Sessions: The Path to Secure Attachment

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.9 • 5K Ratings

🗓️ 30 December 2024

⏱️ 72 minutes

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Summary

In this transformative coaching session with Create The Love Community™ member Kyla Bouvier, Kyla candidly explores her journey of understanding attachment styles and how they influence her relationships, parenting, and professional aspirations. Together, we unpack her patterns of fearful-avoidant and anxious attachment, shaped by childhood dynamics and past relationships, and discuss how they manifest in self-expression and connection. As Kyla shares her challenges in blending her spiritual passions, like astrology, into her wellness business and corporate environment, we dive into overcoming shame and societal conditioning to step into authenticity. This heartfelt dialogue underscores the power of community, self-awareness, and bold action in breaking free from fear-based patterns and fostering secure attachments. Looking for coaching opportunities like these and the support of a like-minded community? Join my online community and explore resources for personal growth and transformation: http://markgroves.com/community. Kyla Bouvier is the owner of Back2Nature Wellness & Adventures, offering outdoor wellness experiences such as stand-up paddleboarding, retreats, and holistic healing. With 16 years of experience as a biologist, Kyla believes in the interconnectedness of all things and the guidance provided by nature. Certified as a Paddle Canada instructor and Outdoor Council of Canada field leader, she also holds certifications in BodyTalk, Astrology, Reiki, and more. Kyla is passionate about holding space for healing and living with a self-reflective mindset, drawing from her own life experiences. Resources: —If you’d like the opportunity to be on my podcast, join the Create The Love Community™ - all members get a chance to get a 1 on 1 coaching session with me that will be aired on my podcast: http://markgroves.com/community —Ready to transform your relationships? Download The Relationship Toolkit for free and learn the 5 essential skills to thrive in love and life! https://go.markgroves.com/relationship-toolkit-podcast —Ready to stop chasing emotionally unavailable people? Download your free guide to break the cycle and call in the relationship you crave: https://go.markgroves.com/unavailable-people-opt-in-podcast —Learn the connection between Attachment Styles, how it affects the Nervous System, AND how you can heal it: .https://go.markgroves.com/nervous-system-opt-in-podcast —Have a Question For Mark That You’d Like To Hear Answered on the Podcast? Leave us a Voice Note Here: https://www.speakpipe.com/TheMarkGrovesPodcast —Get My New Book! Liberated Love - Release Codependent Patterns and Create the Love You Desire: https://markgroves.com/book —Explore My Courses: https://markgroves.com/courses Follow me and my work here: —Subscribe to my YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/markgrovestv —Follow my Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/markgrovespodcast —Subscribe to my Newsletter: https://markgroves.com/newsletter —Subscribe to my Substack: https://markgroves.substack.com Find an archive of my work here: —Instagram - @createthelove: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove —Facebook - @createthelove: https://www.facebook.com/createthelove If you want to dive deeper into Mark’s content, search through every episode, find specific topics we’ve covered, and ask him questions, go to his Dexa page: https://ask.markgroves.com This episode is sponsored by: —Mighty Networks: Go to http://www.markgroves.com/mightynetworks to learn how you can create your own community! Drop us a note at [email protected] for sponsor product support, questions, comments, guest suggestions, or just to say hello! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hello and welcome to another episode of the Mark Groves podcast. You know, if you missed it,
0:05.3	I released recently an episode with a member from my community who said, yeah, you know what,
0:11.6	I'm willing to take the leap and be witnessed in getting coached live by you and sharing that
0:16.5	with the world. And so we have another episode where I dive deep into the challenges this person is confronting.
0:23.5	And I always want to honor that there's the opportunity for anonymity. Because if we're going to
0:27.7	share our challenges with the world, sometimes those challenges we want to keep in the sacred
0:31.5	container of a space where we trust other people. And other times, we're super open with sharing
0:36.7	our name and our story and for every person
0:39.3	that's up to them and they get to be discerning about that because I don't get to decide what's safe
0:44.5	and what's courageous people get to decide that for themselves and so I'm super excited to share
0:50.9	this episode with Kyla Bouvier, who was courageous and brave and said,
0:57.5	you know what, I want other people to learn from my story too.
1:00.9	And as I've said previously, there is so much value in hearing other people navigate their
1:06.9	stuff because that's how we can start to see the webs woven of the wisdom in our own stuff.
1:13.1	You know, it's like if we are trying to navigate New York City and the map that we've been given,
1:18.2	and let's say New York is healthy relationship, everything we want, although that's an ironic
1:22.9	example. But, you know, New York is pretty epic. But it's like if we're trying to navigate and create
1:28.7	healthy relationships, but what we learned was not that, then we've got a map of Chicago trying
1:33.5	to navigate New York. And so, of course, that's going to be frustrating and we're going to take
1:37.3	the wrong turns. So when we can hear someone else get directions and come to awarenesses themselves,
1:45.5	we can start to create direction in our own life.
1:49.6	It's like in real time we're hearing Google Maps being like,
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