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Adult Child

42 - The Gifts of Adult Child Recovery

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 29 December 2021

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Recovering addict and adult child Francisco C. joins us today to discuss the gifts of adult child recovery, He shares about coming to America from Mexico at the age of 5, growing up with a dry drunk father and a codependent mother, getting sober at 23, hitting his adult child bottom at 4 years sober, and and how he went from being a high school drop-out to getting his PhD at an Ivy League school. Francisco is the prime example of what happens when an adult child does the hard work to heal the unresolved past.

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0:00.0

I used to think I had some control over my life, but now I just pull up a chair and watch the shit show unfold.

0:08.0

My name is Andrea, and this is adult child. to let it all go.

0:23.0

It all go.

0:24.0

What's making you slow now?

0:25.0

The time let it all go.

0:27.0

Welcome back to adult child, where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family. For any new

0:35.9

listeners, hello I am Andrea I'm recovering alcoholic I'm recovering adult child and as fellow listener and friend Michelle has

0:46.9

recently programmed me in her phone I am also the master of the shit show and man what an honor that is.

0:56.0

Oh guys it is episode 40 and it is the final episode of 2021 and I have been trying to think of something profound and life-changing

1:11.5

to say to you all to wrap up this year and send you off into the next.

1:18.0

And to be honest, I have not been able to figure out what the fuck that is.

1:22.0

So I am going to lead that to my guest. Today I am

1:27.2

diving deep with Francisco. He is a fellow drunk, a fellow adult child, fellow traveler, somebody I know from 12-step

1:35.6

meetings, and every time he opens his mouth, I benefit. This is somebody that

1:41.0

has done the work, is continuing to do the work.

1:46.0

So I will leave the profound and life changing comments to him.

1:52.0

However, I do have a few things that I want to comment on, the first of which being I want to talk about what it means to be an adult child. I had somebody comment on one of my

2:05.6

social media videos last week saying that we need to stop calling ourselves

2:11.3

to adult children because that is living life with the

2:15.4

belief that there is something inherently wrong with us and that comment

2:21.1

really stirred me because that is truly in complete opposition of what it means to be an adult child and why I created this podcast.

2:32.0

You know, I created this podcast to let you know

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