42 - Marissa
Tangentially Speaking with Christopher Ryan
Chris Ryan
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🗓️ 26 November 2013
⏱️ 96 minutes
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Marissa was born a boy, but eventually realized she was a girl. She's still got a male side—who comes out when yard work needs doing—but has transitioned primarily to living as a woman. I felt deeply honored to have this opportunity to share Marissa's experience and insight.
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| 0:30.0 | Hey, everybody. Welcome to another edition of Ten Gently Speaking. You're joining me in |
| 0:41.8 | sunny Topanga, California, Topanga Canyon just north of Los Angeles where I'm |
| 0:48.8 | sitting in my aunt's very funky house. Her, this house is sort of like bolted to |
| 0:55.0 | the side of a canyon. One entire wall of the living room is a rock. It's just a |
| 1:00.6 | big rock and the house is glummed onto the side of the rock. Very, it's my |
| 1:05.5 | favorite house in the world probably. I've been coming here since I was a kid and |
| 1:10.6 | always loved the views. You've got Eagles cruising by or Hawks maybe. Maybe |
| 1:16.2 | they're Hawks. Big-ass predatory birds and any rate cruising by. You have |
| 1:22.4 | beautiful views. This is the home of a lot of the funkier people who have lived |
| 1:28.0 | in L.A. over the years ranging from Crosby Stills, Nash and Young to the |
| 1:33.9 | Manson family. They were all up here in Topanga. So if you ever get to L.A. and |
| 1:39.6 | you want to break from the city, set your GPS to Topanga, California, and cruise |
| 1:46.1 | up here. It's 20 minutes from downtown or maybe half an hour if there's no |
| 1:50.9 | traffic. It just cruise up the PCH. Take a right before you get to Malibu and |
| 1:56.0 | it's like you're in Colorado suddenly. It's amazing to be this close to a |
| 2:02.2 | huge city and the air is clean and there are coyotes at night, howling and a lot |
| 2:09.0 | in nature. It's very cool. Anyway a lot going on. We've been in L.A. for about |
| 2:15.5 | 10 days now. We're leaving for Africa in a few days for Kassilda's daughter's |
| 2:20.7 | wedding, which will be bizarre, wild, crazy, big African wedding. Looking |
| 2:28.9 | forward to that in Mozambique. But in the meantime we've been in L.A. and as |
| 2:34.7 | usually happens when I get to L.A. all sorts of media opportunities open up. So I |
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