And the the All right, so look, there's a lot that we got to go get into today because it seems like every day I wake up, the is on fire and I'm and I'm the

I know while I think I'm a fire fighter when some people think I'm a fire started

either way the internet is full of shit I've been busy I, blue damn bit. I don't know about

y'all but what have y'all been up to? Blue, what's you been doing?

So I've been setting healthy boundaries. I have stopped being Captain

Save a whole for all my friends on the weekends.

I do not take emergency calls anymore.

I'm letting all my people in my life figure out their own shit.

And it feels great to mind my business and stay hydrated.

Oh yeah.

Relationship stuff, is it people with their kids?

It's everything.

I didn't realize until Christmas how burnt out I was because whenever anything happens, whether

it's at work, if there's a project happening,

everybody knows that they don't have to take notes,

because I'll send a huge email with all the notes later on.

If my friends are going through relationship problems,

I'll jump in as a moderator.

Even my exes hit me up for things that are inappropriate. And so yeah, lately I've just been not available and it feels really great. And a couple of days ago I was having a bad day and instead of like pretending everything was okay, I like look I'm having a bad day somebody

needs to be here for me and you know a cute boy came over and brought me food and loved up on me and it

felt fun and so yeah I'm letting myself receive this is the year of receiving for me.

Listen, I learned a long time ago when it comes to friends in their

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