Hello lovely humans. I'm Wai O'Leary and you are listening to sex stories, a

podcast where we share our intimate details in an effort to improve sex lives everywhere and communication

around sex and consent and all the things.

And I'm so excited to introduce to you today, my guest is Pam.

Welcome.

Thank you so much.

And we have a cat sitting between us and he just meowed so that his presence can be known, so that's muse.

And, uh, Tam, will you tell us a little bit about yourself starting with your age generation orientation how you identify?

Sure, I am freshly 40 as of last month.

I am cis female bisexual is the easiest way to say it,

although there's a whole bunch of other adjectives

that could be used.

And kind of grew up, you know, upper middle class,

Jewish, although not religious more traditional in Canada.

Nice. Great and I see that you are wearing a collar. I am indeed. So do you identify also as kinky? I do. I am a sub yeah.

There's times where I think I'd like to be a switch but then I'm given the opportunity and it scares me and I don't know what to do and I get all giggly and weird and so it's really not a good fit.

Let's end to that. We'll go back to all of history but like tell me about switching or not switching. Not switching so it is more

fantasies that I have that where I would be topping but getting into the actual

situation I don't know what to do and I don't like to lead a

scene I much prefer to be told what to do or where to go so it just doesn't work

but I've been lucky enough to have experiences with partners where pegging was totally an option but not in a

d s way just in a this is another fun thing to do sexually

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