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Adult Child

40 - Navigating Couples Therapy w/ Elizabeth Earnshaw

Adult Child

Andrea Ashley

Relationships, Health & Fitness, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Mental Health

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 15 December 2021

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Today we are diving deep with Elizabeth Earnshaw couples therapist, couples therapist and author of "I Want This to Work: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating the Most Difficult Relationship Issues We Face in the Modern Age".. We discuss boundaries, attachment styles and how she approaches trauma, addiction, and abuse in couples therapy. She also shares about her formally broken picker and how she managed to fix it.
Elizabeth Earnshaw is the founder of A Better Life Therapy, Head of Therapy at Actually. She holds a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy, is a licensed marriage and family therapist, an American Association for Marriage & Family Therapy Clinical Fellow, and a certified Gottman Method couples therapist. Elizabeth trains and supervises new therapists seeking their licenses in the counseling field. Learn more at www.elizabethearnshaw.com
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0:00.0

Work hard to get what you like, otherwise you'll just be forced to like what you get.

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My name is Andrea and this is Adulchial. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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now.

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Yeah, yeah.

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What you holding on to

0:18.0

What you holding on to,

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but just let it all go.

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What's making you slow now?

0:25.0

Let it all go.

0:27.0

Welcome back to adult child, where we take a deep dive into the impact of growing up in a dysfunctional family.

0:34.0

And today I am diving deep with Elizabeth Earnshaw.

0:38.0

She is a licensed couple therapist.

0:41.0

She is a Philly girl like me and she is the author of the

0:45.5

newly published book I want this to work. An inclusive guide to navigating the

0:50.3

most difficult relationship issues we face in the modern age.

0:55.0

Now if I were to rename this for the adult child version of this book, it would be called,

0:59.5

I want this to work, even though you treat me like shit even though you're an active

1:04.2

alcoholic with no intention of getting sober even though you broke up with me and

1:09.2

you told me never to call you again and to lose your number I I want this to work. I need this to work and I will make this work.

1:17.4

So I'm talking to her about a whole bunch of shit such as her broken picker or rather I should say her formally broken picker quite a

1:27.6

juicy story there guys so stay tuned I'm talking to her about boundaries, about attachment styles, and about how she

1:37.8

navigates through a variety of issues that come up in couples counseling such as trauma and addiction and

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