Hi welcome back to the personality hacker podcast my name is Joel Mark Witt and I'm

Antonio Dodge so I was on a call with a client earlier this week, at the time of this recording, and we were just talking about

him possibly joining our Personality Life Path Mentorship Program.

So let's talk about our program and going through all that.

He just say, hey, I've got a side question for you. This is a marriage question. I said, okay, hit me. What's the marriage question? And he said, you and Antonia have very similar personality type you're an E NFP in the Meersburg system.

Antonia is an E-N-T. So I imagine the two of you pretty much just get along about everything

because you are almost the exact same type.

You have one letter off.

And Tony's a thinker, you're a feeler.

And you know, I imagine that you guys just have a really wonderful smooth time of it in your

relationship and I thought for saying that well I mean I think we do have a

high-functioning relationship I think we're able to overcome conflict at high

levels pretty well but I reflected reflected him, I said,

no, I mean, every couple has issues and challenges and struggles and things that

they have conflict around and myself and Antonia be the same he said but you share the same driver of extrovert intuition what we call exploration so you know like you would see things the same and you would kind of and I said

yeah actually we do have a very similar worldview we do agree that what we're

looking at is often the same thing but it doesn't necessarily always lead to

agreements about what to do about that because we have different judgments about it.

But even when we're looking at it sometimes we approach it a little differently.

If we're agreeing we're looking the same thing, we're standing at different angles looking at it.

And that can cause conflict because we don't always agree on how we should be looking at the same thing, right?

As I think today we could unpack a little bit about this idea of, you know, even if people share something, like you

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