37. The Second Attachment One ft. Kirstie Taylor

Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast

Ali Jackson

Society & Culture, Relationships

3.9 • 712 Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2021

⏱️ 84 minutes

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Summary

Ali & Roark are joined by special guest Kirstie Taylor this week to dive more deeply into attachment theory and answer listener questions. Kirstie, a dating and relationship writer who authored the book What I Wish I Knew About Love, drops about 83 insightful bombs this episode as the three women discuss their own attachment journey, and answer questions about anxious-avoidant couples, how to move towards being more secure, and many more! In the updates portion, Roark is dealing with the Classmate’s social double-booking, and in a weird or nah and update crossover, Ali reveals a conundrum she’s had with the Threepeat and gets Kirstie’s advice on the matter.

Timestamps: Kirstie joins the show for Weird or Nah and Topic Talk begins at around 24:45

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0:00.0	Allie, you play like, um, sports?
0:04.5	I play volleyball, yeah.
0:07.3	That sounds, that was a really lame way of asking that question, but you played like sports.
0:12.2	That was really funny.
0:12.9	You play sports? Hello and welcome to another episode of Finding Mr. Hyde the podcast. I'm Allie, back with my co-host, Rourke. How are you?
0:32.1	So this is going to be a funny update because this is the first time where we have recorded where I am actively
0:38.6	annoyed at the classmate. Oh, I love this. Okay, so get this. So he was plan, he had mentioned
0:51.3	that a friend of his wanted to do a double date. I said great. Yeah. He scheduled it for tonight during our recording time. No, you can't do that. Correct. And I don't expect him to put in his calendar when we're recording. Like, that's fine. You know, he doesn't- but we do record it this time every Sunday. Yes, we do.
1:11.0	This is not a different time. This is not new. Yep. So, yeah, so there's that. But, you know, he doesn't need to know my whereabouts at all times. That's fine. So I texted in response, Allie and I are recording. Can we make it this time? And I, I, like, pushed the time frame about, like, 45 minutes to an hour.
1:32.8	Because, like, he technically, like, if I could teleport, I could make it. The problem is the commute.
1:38.6	Yeah. Like, we will be off recording, I think, by the time this would start. Whatever.
1:42.6	Right. But it. Yeah. And so I said, like. Teleportation does not exist. So you must factor in a community. Exactly. So I said, you know, we are recording. Can we do this time and said? He responds, darn, I can't do that time. I have a second dinner with another friend at 730.
2:01.2	He double booked himself for your date night?
2:04.5	Yes.
2:05.3	What?
2:06.2	Yes.
2:07.3	And so, like, it's a very perfect example of a people-pleasing behavior where he had two friends, both, one wanted to have a double date and one wanted to have dinner with him.
2:16.9	And he did not want to say no to either wanted to have dinner with him. And he did not
2:17.8	want to say no to either. And so he didn't. And he like thought he could make these machinations
2:22.3	like work. And it's like, buddy, everything is now worse because you're now having to cancel on one
2:28.8	of them an hour before the event. Yeah. And like I'm, I'm also annoyed because like, it's your prerogative if you want to eat two
2:36.5	dinners, have as much dinner as you fucking want.
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