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The Unmistakable Creative Podcast

36 Questions and The Mystery of Love

The Unmistakable Creative Podcast

Srinivas Rao

Society & Culture

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 31 July 2020

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

What is it that makes people fall in love? It's one of the greatest mysteries of being human. I walked into the bookstore here in Colorado and stumbled upon Mandy Len Catron's memoir, How to Fall In Love with Anyone by Asking Them 36 Questions, and I couldn't help but wonder if these questions really could make you fall in love with anyone. My roommate, Matt, and his now girlfriend, Laura, volunteered to ask each other these questions to find out if this might just lead to a deeper connection and take us closer to solving the mystery of love.


Sound design and Engineering by Josh Ballard

Featured former guests from the Unmistakable Creative podcast include Megan Poe, Susan Piver, Bob Goff and Jennifer Taitz

A special thanks to my roommate, Matthew T. Cooke, and his girlfriend, Laura Foster, for agreeing to be our guinea pigs.

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0:00.0

When I was 20 in college, his name was Baxter, and we're still friends, that was the recognition of,

0:09.0

wow, this relationship has an infinity to it.

0:12.0

And that was the first time I felt that.

0:14.0

We were in college, we were hanging out.

0:18.0

I think I caught his eyes, and he caught mine.

0:21.0

He was smoking a cigarette cigarette was at an art party

0:25.0

and we started talking.

0:27.0

I don't even remember if we were talking very much.

0:30.0

It was pretty nonverbal.

0:32.0

It was pretty much an instant recognition of like your mind and I'm yours and now we're clicking in

0:39.1

We're clicking into something that's bigger than us and it was really creative from the start,

0:44.9

full of creative energy.

0:46.6

In fact, when I read just kids,

0:48.9

and I read about Patty Smith and Robert Mabelthorpe,

0:52.0

I thought, oh, that was me and Baxter. That was us making

0:55.7

drawings together making music together having a sense of this other person that

1:00.9

constantly surprised you and where your imagination was

1:05.0

constantly being mobilized and where you were kind of this entity, this third

1:11.6

that was not you and not him but this thing that you made

1:16.9

together that was your energy together that was your relationship that was

1:21.2

the love and it was really scary and really frightening.

1:27.0

What is it that makes people fall in love?

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