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🗓️ 20 November 2021
⏱️ 83 minutes
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Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist, and author of 'ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship' Dr Ari Tuckman joins us as we explore the connection between ADHD and relationships. We talk about how late in life diagnosis' can affect your relationships, finally realizing you aren't "crazy, stupid, or lazy", and the importance of understanding your or your partners ADHD. We're discussing the ways that ADHD can impact relationships where only one partner is diagnosed, and Dr Tuckman tells us about how ADHD can impact both your solo and partnered s*x life.
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0:00.0 | Hello everybody, welcome back to How Come. This episode is all about ADHD and sex, how it affects sex, how it affects relationships, how it affects life in general, but holy shit, I am so excited for you to hear this episode. Unfortunately, it is late because of ADHD and sex. |
0:15.0 | But it's fine because it's here and it's amazing and we are going to be talking to Dr. Ari Tuckman who was a psychologist and certified sex therapist. His fourth book is ADHD After Dark Better Sex Life Better Relationship. |
0:28.0 | He was actually referred to us by our companion Hillary, so shout out to Hillary. Thank you so much. This conversation is so great. |
0:34.0 | We also have a fantastic congratulations with a companion named Rachel. Both of these parts of the recording are heavily edited, heavily heavily because we had to remove so much stuff that is not really for public. |
0:47.0 | It's going to stay private and by private I mean on patreon.com slash how come. So if you want to hear more from these interviews, go to patreon.com slash how come. |
0:56.0 | Everything there is only five dollars all inclusive. You will love it. And while you're on patreon.com slash how come. There are already two other episodes that we've recorded and I just haven't edited yet due to ADHD. |
1:08.0 | One of them is with no budget babe. We are learning how to become financially independent, how to invest, how to really make the most of the money that you already have and make more. And another episode with my brother. |
1:21.0 | Yay Jason Casimir. We're talking about concert culture, the tragedy that happened at Astro World with Travis Scott's concert. How it could have been prevented, who's to blame. |
1:32.0 | And how do we go forward and join concerts when stuff like this happened. I highly recommend those episodes. They will be coming out on your player. But again, everything is five dollars all inclusive on patreon.com slash how come. |
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2:23.0 | So first we are going to hear from our companion Rachel and then we are going to hear from doctor arey tukman about ADHD relationships and sex. |
2:32.0 | I hope you guys like this episode and if you do rate review and subscribe on your podcast players. We know we never ask you to do this but you should do it. It'll pump us up and we love to be pumped up and plugged up and all that good stuff. |
2:46.0 | So so excited for you to hear this episode first you'll hear from Rachel and then doctor tecman how come how come. |
2:53.0 | I'm rolling up my sleeve. I'm rolling up my sleeve. Oh, maybe I believe these guests can help because I can't do it by myself. I want to just before we get this episode started. |
3:12.0 | I just wanted to give you guys a heads up. I am going to be doing a headlining set. My first headlining set ever. Oh my god at stand up New York on December second 8 p.m. That's in New York City. |
3:25.0 | And we only have 35 tickets sold right now of 120 so it's either going to be a very intimate crowd where I can say hi to all of you and just love you up or will sell out and then all look good to the club and good to other places and then I can get this tour on the road. |
3:45.0 | I think I will still stay behind for those of you if it does sell out I still like to say hi and do all that stuff so please come. It would be a huge help even if you're not New York. |
3:55.0 | Refer your friend tell them to come so that I can come soon to a town near you because unfortunately in this business. It's all about proof of concept and yeah, I think it would be fun to sell this shit out and I'm really excited and I wrote a song for it and Dylan Adler's opening and Riley last in two to our favorites. |
4:14.0 | So you guys go to the link in my bio at Remi Casimir and Instagram or easy it's down in the show notes right here scroll down get your tickets get ready to see me it will be so fun. |
4:26.0 | It is a Remi Casimir headline stand up New York December second 8 p.m. It's going to be so fun and I can't wait to see you guys there and final thing before this recording with Rachel trigger warning there is assault mentioned sexual assault. |
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