#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D.

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2019

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Today on the show I am talking to Dr. Laurie Mintz. She is a professor, author, speaker, and therapist. She teaches psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students annually and she has also authored two books, Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters — And How to Get It, along with A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex.

Inside this episode, Laurie shares her findings on the orgasm gap that exists in relationships and why that often starts at the beginning of a sex ed program. We also dive into the importance of self-discovery and understanding what works best for you as an individual, and then communicating that to your partner. Finally, we bust some of society’s myths about sex and Laurie shares her take-home advice that women can implement in their sexual journeys today.

So if you want to learn all of Laurie’s incredible secrets to experience orgasms during sex, don’t miss out on today’s episode!

Highlights

Laurie’s background and how she came to teach psychology of human sexuality.
How the orgasm gap inspired Laurie to write Becoming Cliterate.
Understanding why there is so much ignorance about female sexual pleasure.
The effective strategy of sex education in the Netherlands.
First steps a woman can take to increase her “cliteracy”.
How to incorporate yourself; a journey of self-discovery.
Why sexual communication can really go a long way.
Getting rid of the myth that sex should be spontaneous.
Approaching your partner about introducing new ideas into your sex life.
Advice for women struggling to orgasm or struggling with low sexual desire.

Tweetables

“It’s truly, truly impossible to have an orgasm while you are worrying about something.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19]

“Mindfulness is putting your mind and body in the same place.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:17:19]

“Communication is the bedrock to make your bed rock.” — @DrLaurieMintz [0:26:17]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Dr. Laurie Mintz — http://drlauriemintz.com/

Laurie on Twitter — https://twitter.com/drlauriemintz

Becoming Cliterate — https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Cliterate-Orgasm-Equality-Matters/dp/0062664557

A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex — https://www.amazon.com/Tired-Womans-Guide-Passionate-Sex/dp/1605501077

OMGYes — https://www.omgyes.com/

Calm — https://www.calm.com/

Head Space — https://www.headspace.com/

Transcript

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0:00.0	The first step besides the attitude adjustment is always self-pleasure, masturbation, taking time to learn what one likes because every woman's genital nerves are positioned a bit differently
0:14.7	everybody needs a little bit different type or location or pressure of stimulation to
0:20.2	orgasm so learning what you like bringing yourself to orgasm, so learning what you like, bringing yourself to orgasm, and then the next step.
0:37.8	This is the Bad Girls Bible Podcast. I'm your host Sean Jameson and this is the place where I interview experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your relationships
0:44.7	and have more enjoyable sex more often.
0:47.8	And by the way, if you want to learn my most important sex tips and techniques that will bring you and your partner
0:53.8	back arching spine tingling toe curling orgasms that will keep them coming
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1:05.4	name and email address and I will send these sex tips straight to your inbox.
1:10.0	Today I'm talking to Dr. Lorry Mintz, she's a professor, author, speaker and therapist.
1:17.2	She teaches psychology of human sexuality to hundreds of undergraduate students annually, and she's also authored two books
1:24.5	Becoming Cliterate why Organism Equality Matters and how to Get it along with a tired
1:30.6	woman's guide to passionate sex.
1:33.7	Lori, thanks so much for coming on the Bad Girls Bible podcast.
1:37.1	Thank you for having me on the show. I'm excited to be here.
1:40.0	Great, well I'd love to start off with a little bit about your background and how you came to be a professor teaching psychology of human sexuality and also writing becoming clitoris.
1:53.0	Well, I'm a psychologist and I've been seeing clients privately for over 30 years and also teaching for this same amount of time.
2:03.5	And over the years, as both a professor and a psychologist,
2:08.3	I've developed a specialty in human sexuality
2:12.0	after realizing quite honestly how abysmal our training is as
2:17.3	psychologists and sexuality. Many people go through grad school and never even learn
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