323 | Throat Swabs & Shameless Care: Robert Johnson’s Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 2 December 2025
⏱️ 76 minutes
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Swinging, STI testing breakthroughs, and oxytocin-fueled desire—Robert shares how ethical non-monogamy reshaped his life and inspired him to build sex-positive telehealth care with Shameless Care.
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📈 STATS | 40s straight cis man, ethically non-monogamous, in a committed long-term relationship, founder & CEO of Shameless Care (use code LOVER), from Illinois, into: all things sensual, flirting with new people, passionate connections in swinger and/or poly spaces, sex-positive healthcare, sexual health, and helping people overcome shame, misinformation, and barriers to sexual wellness.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Safety is sexy, ethical non-monogamy, and early shame around sex
05:02 Flirting as foreplay, swinger-club dynamics, and the power of reciprocal energy
10:11 90s sex ed, porn memories, and first-touch confusion
14:17 Discovering swinging and realizing casual sex isn’t “dangerous”
19:24 Jealousy, self-improvement through ENM, and explicit verbal consent
23:40 How explicitness builds sexy confidence
27:01 The gonorrhea scare that exposed massive STI-testing gaps and sparked Shameless Care
32:29 Throat-herpes, medical dismissal, and the fight to get proper swabs
38:20 Oral-only gonorrhea, common missed infections, and why thorough panels matter
42:07 At-home testing realities and why sex-positive telehealth needs real doctors
44:33 Doxy-PEP, ED meds, and the science behind oxytocin for bonding and presence
49:54 Nasal and sublingual oxytocin, subtle shifts in energy, and enhancing date-night connection
54:24 Topical sildenafil cream, increased blood flow, and treating sex like playful research
59:15 No subscriptions, personalized care, patient advocacy, and how to request proper tests
1:04:21 Doctor discomfort, stigma, the Gen-Z sex recession, and hopes for a more loving sexual culture
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🤩 TOPICS | Anal swabs, anxiety around first-time sex, asymptomatic infections, at-home STI kits, blood spot testing, casual sex fears, chlamydia testing, communication skills, condom conversations, consent culture, dating nerves, deep kissing moments, dental dam scarcity, dried blood cards, ED medication experiences, explicit boundaries, female arousal cream, female lubrication changes, genital touching confusion, gonorrhea exposure, group event etiquette, healing from STI stigma, herpes throat infection, hookup health concerns, itch-and-scratch desire buildup, kissing buildup, lifestyle club etiquette, male sexual anxiety, medical dismissal, misdiagnosed infections, mycoplasma genitalium, naked resort mingling, non-sexual touch bonding, oral sex risks, oral swab testing, orgasm bonding hormones, performance nerves, penis sensitivity anxiety, pleasure research mindset, polyamorous dating, positive consent check-ins, post-sex communication, pregnancy scares, pubic hair discovery moment, routine STI panels, self-advocacy in clinics, shame unlearning, swinger party misconceptions, swing-community communication, telehealth STI treatment, testing advocacy tools, topical sildenafil, trick-among-us (trichomonas), unprotected oral realities, verbal consent scripts, vulva exploration moments, yeast infection concerns.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, lovely humans. I'm Luna Robbie, and you are listening to Sex Stories, a podcast of |
| 0:05.1 | personal histories where we learn from each other and practice deep, non-judgmental listening |
| 0:09.7 | in order to co-create a more loving world. If you want to express your love for this show, |
| 0:14.8 | you can find ad-free episodes on Patreon, get personal with me on OnlyFans, sign up to be a guest, |
| 0:20.1 | and check out the awesome brands to support our show. |
| 0:23.5 | Links are in the description below or visit Sex Storiespodcast.com. |
| 0:26.8 | Now please enjoy this episode. |
| 0:29.7 | Our guest today is a straight cis man in his 40s who's in a committed, ethically non-monogamous long-term relationship. |
| 0:36.4 | Like me, he agrees that safety is sexy |
| 0:39.0 | and is into all things sensual, flirting with new people, and passionate connections in swing-rish |
| 0:45.2 | and or poly spaces. He is passionate about sex-positive health care, honest-informed grown-up sexual |
| 0:50.6 | health, and helping people overcome shame, misinformation, and barriers to sexual |
| 0:54.5 | wellness, the founder and CEO of Shameless Care, a telehealth company we are partnering with that is |
| 0:59.4 | focused on sex positive health care, which you can learn more about through our link in the |
| 1:02.9 | description below and use code lover for anything you want to get there with us today from |
| 1:06.9 | Illinois. Welcome, Robert. Thank you so much for having me. I'm looking forward to it. |
| 1:11.7 | I'm so excited to get your full story. But first, could you please start out by telling us, |
| 1:17.5 | if you had to rate yourself on a sexual shamometer, with 10 being the most full of shame, |
| 1:22.9 | and zero being like, I truly am the shameless human of shameless care. |
| 1:28.1 | Where do you fall today and when, if ever, has your shamo coaster squiggled throughout the |
| 1:32.2 | years? |
| 1:33.1 | What a great question. |
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