32. The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2020

⏱️ 82 minutes

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Summary

Suzanne talks with Rollo Tomassi, author of The Rational Male.

Rollo is also the author of the Rational Male blog, which is now in its 9th year. He has a one-year old YouTube channel with 34K subscribers and growing and was one of the principle creators of the Red Man Group.

Rollo has been married to his wife for 23 years and has a 21-year-old daughter in college. He lives in Reno, Nevada with anywhere between 2 to 5 greyhounds depending on how many he’s fostering at the time

Rollo’s website is www.therationalmale.com

IN THIS EPISODE:

Feminism has conditioned males to become more feminine, more beta
We live in a global, sexual marketplace which has affected how men and women mate
For women, when looking for a long-term mate, being “alpha” is more about owning your masculinity than about how much money you have, your looks, social status, etc.
The Soulmate Myth: There’s no such thing as the One. The soul mate mentality is not a good way to plan your life
Hypergamy is how women select their mates (mating strategy)
Women’s and men’s sexual market value timeline is not the same (a woman’s SVM tops out around 23. Around 27-30, the realization sinks in that they must trade in their party years and find a mate)
Women tend to find men that are 3-5 years older than they are; men tend to find women between the ages of 22-23 are most attractive
We’re still clinging to equality, or the “clean slate” theory that men and women are the same
Men and women are better together than they are apart
It is impossible for a woman to be as sexual as a man, based on biological factors.
Men’s sexual strategy is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality.
Women have reproductive costs that men don’t have

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0:52.7	Welcome back to the Suzanne Venker Show.
0:55.1	I have with me today, Rolo Tamasi, who I think some of you, at least my male listeners, may know.
1:02.5	He's the author of The Rational Mail, which is billed as life-saving work for men in the sexual marketplace,
1:08.5	and covers an array of topics we're going to talk about today, such as the
1:11.7	soulmate myth, masculine and feminine dynamics, and hypergamy. Rollo is also the author of the
1:18.1	Rational Male series of books, as well as the author of the Rational Male blog, which is now in its
1:23.0	ninth year. He has a one-year-old YouTube channel with 34,000 subscribers and has a podcast called,
1:30.0	appropriately, the Rational Mail Podcast. Rolo has been married to his wife for 23 years,
1:36.3	and they have a 21-year-old daughter. He lives in Reno, Nevada, with anywhere between
1:40.8	two to five greyhounds depending on how many he's fostering at the time.
1:45.7	Rolo's website is the rational mail.com. Good morning, Rolo.
1:51.6	Good morning. Good morning. Thanks for having me on.
1:53.6	Sure. Thanks for coming on. I'm excited to talk to you. My goodness, there's so much to say.
1:58.4	I think this might be a long podcast. Although I usually go over.
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