318-The Value (And Annoyance) of Feelings
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
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🗓️ 10 December 2021
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
How do we process feelings in order to bring about healing into our relationships, rather than cause tension and strife?
Can we trust our feelings?
Do you struggle to interpret your spouses feelings? Does your spouse misinterpret your feelings?
This podcast will help give some guidance about healthy ways to process our feelings and the feelings of those who are in our lives.
What is your compass?
Although feelings are real, feelings can be a disastrous compass. Feelings are volatile, unpredictable, and often, not even accurate to reality.
There is a MUCH better compass to live by!
In order to act in wisdom with our feelings, they cannot be our leader! Rather than react to our feelings, we need to respond to our feelings.
To be direct in our communication is easy for the speaker, but it is hard for the listener. Does our communication style make those who hear us feel safe, cherished, respected, admired, and loved?
Yes, feelings - wisely handled - can be so helpful in so many ways! I invite you into this podcast with Belah as she shares some valuable insights on this subject.
On behalf of Belah, ~ Darcy
PS If you would like help with your marriage, you are invited to click on this link to schedule a free Clarity Call with a DYM advisor.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:19.0 | Hey there, welcome. Delight your marriage. |
| 0:24.3 | Hey there, welcome. |
| 0:25.8 | Oh my goodness. |
| 0:28.1 | Christmas is right around the corner. |
| 0:31.3 | And I really want to post this conversation because there's so many feelings that happen around the holidays, |
| 0:34.9 | whether it's, you know, just past hurts from people in our family |
| 0:42.9 | or expectations that have not been filled or hopes and dreams that are just not reality right now |
| 0:49.2 | in your family life. And that's why I want to talk about feelings and helping you to process this season |
| 0:56.0 | and helping you to have some guidance on your feelings that they're important, but they also |
| 1:03.8 | need to bow their need to wisdom and how to do that interplay and how God can use our feelings effectively to help heal relationships. |
| 1:18.2 | So I'm going to give some examples about interactions with in my life that hopefully will |
| 1:24.2 | also give some insight into your situations as well. Now before we dive in, |
| 1:30.2 | if this is a topic and something that you are feeling like, yes, I really need this insight for |
| 1:39.0 | my marriage. And let's say you've been listening to the podcast for a little bit and you have already gained |
| 1:45.0 | some really great tools and you're starting to see things change in your marriage. |
| 1:48.4 | I want to invite you that this is really the time to get more support, like right in the beginning |
| 1:55.7 | as you're changing things and changing your perspective on how your marriage works, I want to invite you to |
| 2:02.8 | consider going further and actually taking the step to get on a call with my darling |
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