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Simple Farmhouse Life

308. Parenting Boys in Today’s Culture: Eight Essentials for Moms | Molly DeFrank

Simple Farmhouse Life

Lisa Bass

Home & Garden, Leisure

4.91.9K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Boyhood today looks very different than it did a generation ago, and many moms are wondering how to raise sons who thrive in a culture that often works against them.  In this conversation with Molly, we talk about why so many boys are struggling and how we as moms can ground them in faith, family, and belonging.  We dive into practical ways to recognize your son’s unique wiring, reframe weaknesses as strengths, and guide him through big emotions, school struggles, and everyday responsibilities.  From the resilience built around the family dinner table to the importance of one-on-one connection and real-life community, you’ll hear encouragement and tools for nurturing boys in the formative years so they can grow into men of strength, character, and purpose! In this episode, we cover: Why boys today are struggling and how culture shapes their sense of identity Biblical principles that guide us as moms raising sons Recognizing the unique wiring of each boy and learning to reframe weaknesses as strengths The importance of belonging, worldview, and family connection Family meals as a simple but powerful practice for building resilience in kids Eight key areas to nurture in your son during the formative years Creative ways to weave one-on-one connection into ordinary family life Guiding boys through anger and big emotions  Encouraging motivation and building focus for schoolwork without constant battles Teaching boys to notice messes, take initiative, and follow through on responsibilities Understanding what’s “normal” chaos in a boy-filled home and how to balance it with structure Why real-life community is vital for moms raising boys, and how it brings encouragement and perspective View full show notes on the blog + watch this episode on YouTube. Thank you for supporting the sponsors that make this show possible! RESOURCES MENTIONED Mothering Boys: 8 Things Your Son Needs from You before He Turns 10 by Molly DeFrank Check out Molly DeFrank’s previous episode on the podcast Listen to RuthAnn Zimmerman’s recent episode on the podcast Join my FREE masterclass to learn my 4-step framework for making money on YouTube Master the rhythm of sourdough with confidence in my Simple Sourdough course Gain the sewing knowledge and skills every homemaker needs in my Simple Sewing series Turn your content creation dreams into a profitable business with my YouTube Success Academy Keep all my favorite sourdough recipes at your fingertips in my Daily Sourdough cookbook CONNECT Molly DeFrank | Website | Facebook | Instagram Lisa Bass of Farmhouse on Boone | Blog | YouTube | Instagram | TikTok | Facebook | Pinterest Do you have a question you’d like me to answer on the podcast?  A guest you’d like me to interview?  Submit your questions and ideas here: bit.ly/SFLquestions.

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0:00.0

After having nine kids, it is very clear to me that all children are different with their personalities.

0:07.0

They learn differently. They're motivated by different things. Parents, imagine a school day built around

0:11.8

your child's needs and interest. It's possible with K-12-powered schools. You don't need to wait until

0:16.9

next year. You can make the switch to K-12 at any time and set your kid up for success.

0:21.7

K-12-powered schools are accredited tuition-free online public schools for students in kindergarten

0:26.6

through 12th grade. They've been a leader in education for over 25 years with their engaging

0:30.9

curriculum that supports individual learning styles. But this isn't like typical homeschooling.

0:35.4

K-12 has state certified teachers specially trained in

0:38.4

teaching online who use hands-on innovative technology to make learning interactive. And that's what's so

0:44.2

great about K-12 is the flexibility. Schools anywhere, there's internet access, whether that's from

0:49.2

the comfort of home or on the go to keep up with your family's busy schedule. See why more than three million

0:55.0

families have chosen K-12 to empower their students. Go to k-12.com slash farmhouse today to learn more.

1:01.1

That's the letter K, the number 12.com slash farmhouse. K-12.com slash farmhouse.

1:07.5

Moms get to identify where our boys' strengths and weaknesses are, or even if we perceive it to be a weakness. He sees two siblings fighting and he needs to go and try and regulate it. On a bad day, that's a meddler and that's annoying. This is our job as moms. We get to look at that and say, you know what? You actually have a really clear sense of right and wrong. It's great for us to be on the lookout because no one

1:27.9

knows our kids like we do. Mothers have incredible insight. We can see the way their hearts and minds are, even from when they're very tiny. It's our job to kind of steer them to where, hey, I see this trait in you. Do you know where that trait really shines? Over here. My name is Lisa, mother of eight and creator of the blog and YouTube channel Farmhouse

1:45.5

on Boone. On this podcast, I like to talk about simplifying your life so you can live out your

1:49.9

priorities. I help you learn how to cook from scratch and decorate on a budget through this podcast

1:54.5

and my courses simple sourdough in the simple sewing series. I also help people reach their goals

2:00.1

from home through my business course in YouTube Success Academy. I will leave links to these resources in the Simple Sewing series. I also help people reach their goals from home through my business

2:01.3

course in YouTube Success Academy. I will leave links to these resources in the show notes and

2:05.4

description box below. Now let's get into the show. Welcome back to the Simple Farmhouse Life

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podcast. Today we're going to be talking about raising boys, something

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