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The Connected Life

304: Honoring Your Capacity

The Connected Life

Justin Stumvoll

Coaching, Love, Christian, Selfhelp, Christianity, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Romance, Health, Spirituality

4.92.6K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2024

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

We're wired to seek love, approval, and affirmation—even when it pushes us to the breaking point. But what happens when life knocks you down so hard that performing is no longer an option?

In this raw and eye-opening episode, Abi shares about her battle with PTSD and how it shattered her ability to keep up appearances. She dives into the toll of self-neglect, fueled by a 'can-do' attitude that led to burnout, and the pressure of maintaining a public image while struggling behind the scenes. From the expectations of always being "on" to how filming this very podcast triggered some of her darkest moments, Abi’s story is a powerful reminder that we all have limits.

If you've been pushing yourself to the edge, this episode is a must-listen. It’s time to pause, check in, and show yourself some compassion. Don’t miss it!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Life isn't perfect and neither are we.

0:05.0

But we know how to face our fears and have some fun.

0:10.0

And talk about all the messiest things of life.

0:13.0

Like the messiest things.

0:15.0

Get connected to yourself, get connected to others,

0:18.0

and get connected to the life right in front of you.

0:21.0

This is the connected life with Justin and Abbey. That's you.

0:26.0

And you.

0:27.0

Hey, we want to, I don't know how you want to introduce this podcast.

0:33.0

Well, we're going to be talking about performance and how heavy of a burden that could be sometimes

0:42.0

when we go into feeling like we have to perform in order for

0:47.8

whatever reason oftentimes we abandon ourselves in the process of having to be the image of what we think we need to be

0:56.2

instead of authentic to where we are actually at currently.

1:00.7

Yeah, that's great.

1:02.3

Do you, I would like to set the stage for this if you're okay with it.

1:07.0

So for those of you who are just tuning in, we've been doing our podcast for, I't know like a few years four or five years maybe I don't know but when we started our podcast it was audio only a lot of you have been joining us on YouTube now we transition transition in the last, I don't know,

1:24.3

six months maybe into video, which is a new venture.

1:28.2

But when we were doing audio only it was relatively really easy we found ourselves we would jump into our

1:38.0

podcast room at our house throw together one or two podcasts and then move on with life and it felt like yeah that was very

1:44.8

connected what a really great podcast I could feel that both of us felt usually very

1:49.6

present and connected and connected inside of that.

1:53.0

And then like the minute that we got into the video room,

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