3 Ways to Make Sure He Meets Your Needs
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 25 November 2020
⏱️ 7 minutes
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I get SO many questions about standards in early-stage dating every week...
How do you set standards?
How do you know if your standards are too high, too low, or are scaring people away?
How do you communicate your standards in a kind and honest way? What if all of my standards are fulfilled by someone except one important one?
To answer some of these questions, this week I take a real woman’s story and give 3 practical techniques for solving it that I think you’re going to find really valuable.
If you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn’t feel like it’s quite going your way, this episode is going to help you make sense of things…
Also, we are finishing this year with a bang.
As you know, I just released my brand new program The Momentum Texts (thank you to all of you who got your copy, and for the incredible early feedback).
Well, to add one more surprise, at the end of this new episode I announce something many of you have been waiting for in the last few weeks. I’ll see you there to tell you about it.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, it is Stephen Hussie here host of the Love Life podcast and we are going to |
| 0:29.7 | flick over to Mr. Matthew very shortly. He's going to be talking about how to make sure |
| 0:36.3 | a guy meets your needs and if he doesn't, how to actually know what your needs are so |
| 0:42.4 | that you can say, hey, maybe I'm overrating this person a bit and they're not super compatible |
| 0:47.8 | with me and maybe I need to make the decision to lower my investment in them because they're |
| 0:53.7 | not as right as I initially thought they were. Very important, very important concept, |
| 0:58.5 | updating our perception of someone as we go along in the dating mode. Many people make a decision |
| 1:04.3 | very early on about someone and then don't update that according to their behaviour. Very, |
| 1:09.7 | very important. So before I do, Matthew mentions our upcoming virtual retreat which is going to be |
| 1:18.0 | next year in 2021. It's the first one went off amazingly. We had such an incredible time, so many |
| 1:25.8 | wonderful people to those of you joined us. You know it was a smash of an event and we're going |
| 1:32.6 | to be doing it again. So Matthew mentions there is a link, that link is mhvirtualretreat.com. |
| 1:39.8 | mhvirtualretreat.com and I'll put it in the show notes so that you can click it there if you want |
| 1:45.6 | to as well. Alrighty, over to Maddie boy. I was recently on Australian TV via Zoom and there |
| 1:54.3 | was a woman that her story was essentially that she'd been on three dates with a guy. On the second |
| 2:00.4 | date, she brought up the fact that he didn't seem to banter with her much between dates. Now she |
| 2:07.0 | brought this up because she said, this is really important to me. I know I love being able to banter |
| 2:13.3 | with someone and when someone doesn't give me much of that, it's like I'm not having something |
| 2:18.3 | that I know is a big thing for me. So she mentioned it to him. She'd said it didn't really change after |
| 2:24.6 | that. Not only that, but after the third date, he didn't really text for nine days and then nine |
| 2:32.2 | days later sent a text saying, hey, sorry, not playing games, just really busy right now. At that |
| 2:39.2 | point, she said to me, Matthew, what do I do? You know, I've, is this a sign that he really doesn't |
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