3 Warning Signs Before He Cheats—From a Man Who Did It | Laterras R. Whitfield PT 1 (Fan Fav)

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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This is a fan fav episode. Today we’re unveiling the truth behind cheating. Join me for a thought-provoking two-part episode of Women of Impact where I sit down with Latteras Whitfield for a candid conversation about cheating, which I'll admit is going to be a bit triggering for some of you. Together, we delve deep into the reasons behind Latteras' infidelity and provide valuable insights for women dealing with the aftermath of this painful betrayal. Laterras, the author of Dear Future Wifey, opens up about his personal experiences of cheating multiple times on his ex-wife. He emphasizes that his cheating was never about her but rather a reflection of his own lack of integrity. We explore the factors that contribute to cheating, such as unmet needs, contention, and the misconception that sex with other women means nothing to a married man. This conversation touches on angles we rarely think about, such as the failure of counseling and the lack of open discussions about what sex truly looks like within a marriage. Laterras shares a heart-breaking story about a feather that taught him a valuable lesson on intimacy and unmet needs. And ladies, there's a powerful lesson in it for you too. I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear, but my goal is to provide healing and foster better conversations in the future. I want you to be able to spot the signs of cheating and take action accordingly, with absolutely no judgment if you decide to stay or leave that relationship. Subscribe to Women of Impact for more thought-provoking content that addresses the silent struggles we face in relationships and in life. Communication and understanding are key to saving broken hearts and facilitating healing in today's complex world of love and commitment. For further insights on navigating the challenges and building strong, resilient partnerships check out Laterras' book, Dear Future Wifey: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Future-Wifey/dp/B08K58WDPT⁠ Original air date: 12-13-2023 Follow Laterras Whitfield: Website: ⁠https://www.kingdomroyale.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/DearFutureWifey⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield/⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:58.3	All right ladies, this is one of those episodes that I've got to warn you ahead of time.
1:02.5	If you've been heartbroken by a partner who's actually cheated on you, well, today's
1:06.8	episode may feel a little triggering and painful.
1:09.9	But honestly, truthfully, my hope is that by the end of this two-part episode, the transparency of today's guest, a man who's actually cheated multiple times, Netaris Whitfield, you'll find hopefully a bit of healing and a path to better conversations in the future. Now, a achieving partner isn't, I repeat, is not about you.
1:32.2	Period.
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1:34.9	But we're going to explore where masturbation, unmet needs and contention created the perfect
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