Hello, hello my friends, this is Stephen Hussey here, host of the Love Life podcast,

and oh my lord, it is a special day today because it is the official launch day of the brand new Matthew Hussey momentum texts program.

So for those of you who are yet to hear this news, what this is is a brand new program that Matthew himself has been writing,

slaving over and it was finally is releasing to the world today and it is a program all about the questions he's received over the years about texting, how to do it well, how to keep attraction, questions like how to keep someone interested enough for a first or a second day, how to escape limbo, the endless casual phase that never seems to lead to an actual committed relationship, and how to keep the fire alive with someone

you see every day or with someone you're in a long distance relationship with, and the official title for the program is the momentum text 67 counter intuitive text that lead to real relationships and the surprising psychology behind why they work.

But momentum because that's what we're always looking for in attraction is keeping things moving forward momentum actually feeling like you're going somewhere so you're not constantly standing still stop and start what's going on, I'm sitting here waiting to know if something's going to happen or not going to happen, how do you actually get things moving and keep that train moving forward.

And what I would like to do in this episode since this is mine to play with I want to give you a little sneak peek into the program and talk about three of my favorite texts from the program and what they're designed to communicate and why I think they're great little tools to have in your arsenal because you know when it comes to this sort of thing people, you know they wonder about well is it too prescriptive for me,

you know, to be told these are great texts to say to someone, well, if I wouldn't say that someone or that's not me or, you know, isn't it going to be different for everyone and the thing we tell people about these is these are just tools for you to use as you see fit.

Sometimes you'll love the exact message and it will be appropriate for the right scenario and many of the messages in here for all different parts of a relationship so you're going to be able to adapt those however you want and the program actually gives you specific advice for you know it is a little tweak you can make on this if you only been on one date with this guy or if you're in a relationship with him or if it's you've been sleeping together so there's all these tweaks you can make depending on where you actually are in the relationship so they're context.

So they're context driven and also you know so many people ask us well I do actually want to know specific you know when you say this principle what's the actual specific action I can take behind it what is something I can say that shows high value what would a good example be of flirting how do I show on your place or show vulnerability and an attractive way how do I amp up sexual tension in a way that doesn't make him think that

suddenly it's just going to be all sex sex sex but I want to create that chemistry with him so there's all these things that these adjust your tools to give you ideas to spark your creativity to show you the kind of things that work and why other things don't because language is very specific and so does specific words you say can change someone psychology very drastically if we use the wrong ones so they can always be adapted for your context so you can change the way you want to do it.

So I want to be connected for your context but the point is these are to actually show you the how to because you know you've seen lots of dating advice staff and it's always fluff and it's always generic and it's like be playful be yourself show confidence but you think okay what do I do that's different than I would have done yesterday what's an example of that is the nuts and bolts this is how you do it this is the playbook

and it's something you can have a lot of fun with.

Like I love seeing different examples of communication.

Like I'm nerdy about communication.

I love seeing how different words,

different things we can convey with our thoughts,

how we can be creative, how we can be different

because so much of texting is generic and boring and flat.

And so it's like, okay, how do you differentiate yourself?

I wanna see that, what can you actually do?

So this is, this program's the price of,

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