#3: Swinging 101, How To Explore Swinging Safely With Your Partner & How To Make It Incredible For Both Of You With Cooper S. Beckett

The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Sean Jameson

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

3.8 • 899 Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2017

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.

Show Highlights

1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene.
4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people.
6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging
6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different.
8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating
9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract."
10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way.
18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills.
18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience.
21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites
23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull.
25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations.
28.40 - Dealing with jealousy.
33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you
43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy

Show Notes
Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show

More On Cooper
If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:

http://coopersbeckett.com/
https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en
https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/
https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/

Cooper's Podcast
Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/
Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2

Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts:
swingset.fm

Cooper's 1st book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/

Cooper's 2nd book
http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/

Special Discount for Listeners
Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.

Transcript

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0:00.0	This is the Bad Girls Bible Podcast. I'm your host Sean Jameson and this is the place where I interview
0:17.0	experts and professionals and everyone in between to teach you how to dramatically improve your
0:22.2	relationships and have more enjoyable sex more often.
0:25.8	And by the way, if you want to learn my most important sex tips and techniques that will bring
0:30.9	you and your partner back arching, spine tingling, toe curling
0:34.1	orgasms that will keep them coming back for more.
0:36.7	You'll find them in my discrete and private newsletter.
0:39.8	Just go to Badgirls Bible.com slash newsletter enter your name and email address and I will send these
0:45.2	sex tips straight to your inbox.
0:47.8	Today our guest is Cooper S Beckett. Cooper is the co-founder of the Life on the Swing Set website and host of its Swinging and Polyamore podcast.
0:57.7	He's also written two books, A Life Less Manogamous and My Life on the Swing Set. And he speaks and teaches on things like pegging, swinging, polyamory, play parties and
1:07.0	non-monogamy.
1:09.0	Cooper, thanks so much for joining us in the show.
1:11.0	Oh, thanks for having me. So I'd love to start off with a bit of a bit of your
1:17.9	background and I'd love if you could tell us how you got involved in swinging polyamory and non-monogamy?
1:27.0	Sure.
1:28.0	Well, you know, like a lot of people, I followed the path that I perceived that I was supposed to follow.
1:36.8	You know, I met my now ex wife.
1:40.0	I met her in college and we dated for a couple years. We graduated from college, we got married.
1:47.8	Then the path started to fall apart because we weren't interested in having children, which is really that
1:54.7	next step there.
1:57.0	And we realized as time went on that both of us regretted not having explored more before we got married because that was the end of the
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