Welcome to episode three of the growing together podcast. I'm Kaylyn and I'm Kaira and we're here to walk with you through life, faith, relationships, and money today

We're going to be speaking about how to resolve conflict and avoid relationship ending fights

Maybe you've been dating for three to six months or maybe you just got married and

Something happens and there's like a little disagreement and you think I don't know if we go make a through this

I'm married the wrong person. This is not it. It's a little trouble in paradise

And you think yep, we don't fight well and we don't get along

Therefore I need to get a divorce therefore I need to break up. We've all been there

We've all second guest our decision to be with a person that we've been with all because of the conflict that has

Transpired but today we're going to be getting into that and giving you guys some A1 tips on how you can resolve that and

Avoid the breakup so now for there to let's jump into it

I'm going to start off by sharing a little personal story

Mostly we're going to just be talking about what I learned from it

And I think a lot of women specifically can relate and we'll know exactly what I'm talking about

This isn't even necessarily a fight like it wasn't physical or anything

We weren't even yelling at each other pretty much. I came to Kaylyn with an idea and I had it all researched

I thought I had it all figured out and I thought it was going to go well. I was not nervous at all

I come to him. I'm like hey that and he is just like I literally see his whole demeanor shift and

That kind of triggered me into being super fearful and I just got emotional and I was a hot mess

I was literally crying. I felt I was losing control

I think it's probably what it mostly came out of I think if anything

I felt this deep sadness because I longed to be on the same page as you and I was thinking what is gonna happen if

A decision has to be made and we're not on the same page yet. What does that look like for us?

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