Hi, this is Four Play Radio Sex Therapy. I'm Lori Watson, sex therapist and

author of wanting sex again, and I'm here with my co-host, marriage and

family therapist Tony Del Medico.

We are here to help couples keep it hot.

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Lori, where is Foreplay going to take us today? Oh, this is a good one Tony. We're going to talk about

go oral or go home. go oral or go home which is your title I know start

us off what what does it mean it just came out oh I think right up front we

should be saying we're going to be talking about oral

sex for men for man fallatio right giving men oral sex yeah so it's getting

oral sex if you are a guy. Yeah, so in your experience as a sex therapist,

do you find that oral sex for men continues well after the couple gets married

or goes into a committed relationship?

Or do you find...

A softball? Or do you find that it diminishes over time?

Yeah, you know, I mean I think this is that your title really captures I think the frustration that men feel that that somehow or another you know

oral sex seems to drop off after marriage precipitously yeah many men report yeah and I

think that there's so much rage about that and I don't blame them.

You know there's suddenly it's like well she used to do it when I was dating and when we

were together then and why doesn't she do it now? I mean there's just this frustration.

Like somehow or another oral sex becomes this really exotic act where it used to be just kind of part of the routine

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