The new country, 963, second, second, second, second date update.

We got Tanner on the line.

Tanner gave us a call. He went out with Tina. They had a great first date. Unfortunately, he has not heard from her sense, so we're going to see if we can help her out. First of all, Tanner, tell us I met Tina. We met online. It was through a dating platform. We actually chatted for like a month through the platform before we found a time to meet up, which was kind of nice.

I felt like we were building up a bond, you know, nothing was too rushed. Okay. And I thought the date went well, but I'm not hearing back from her. Okay. Did anything go wrong on the date? Honestly, not that I can think of. No, it seemed good. I thought we clicked.

All right. Well, let's have us give her a call, see him and get you second date, okay?

Thank you.

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We've gotten to hold of Tina, and she's agreed to come on the air with us.

So Tina, do you remember going out with Tanner?

Oh, yeah, I remember Tanner.

Well, he gave us a call, said you guys had a great first date, but unfortunately, he says he never heard from me after that and asked us to give you a call on his behalf. Well, he's a guy with a lot of talk and no action, so. Well, we have to ask, what was all talk and no action? What was that about? Well, I mean, he's got big game, and then he talks about things and makes plans, and he just doesn't go through with it, and I don't have time for guys like that. Oh, okay. All right. So with you, he discussed doing stuff and then he never came through. Oh, yeah, like big stuff. Well, here's the deal. He called us, like he said, you guys had a great first date, and he was just looking for a second date. Can we bring him in on this conversation just to kind of see what he was planning for you guys and why he didn't come through? Sure. I want to know what he has to say about all of this. All right. Well, let's bring him up. Tanner, are you there? Yeah, I'm here, guys. Did you hear what Tina said, that you had some big plans that you never came through with? Yeah, I heard her. I don't really know what she's talking about. You could take me on a trip to Mexico. Are you serious? I see on Instagram, like, later of the week, you went. And you didn't even text me, call me nothing. Like, you went without me. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on. I told you I was going on a trip to Mexico. This has been planned with old friends for like months.

You're going to take me. We were on one date. What are you talking about?

You said I should come. Like you said, oh, I'm going. Literally at the end of the date, you were like, oh, I'm going on a trip to Mexico. You should come.

I mean, I was saying it's going to be a good

trip. It's a good place. If you wanted to get a ticket and come out with my friends, you haven't met

yet, might be a little weird for a second date, but yeah, sure. But I wasn't going to...

You say that now, but you definitely said I should come. Yeah, listen, it's like an off-handed comment, like, pleasantry. That wasn't an invitation. Oh, it's free to say now. Now that you're on the radio, and I guess you decided to make a deal out of it. But at the time, you definitely invited me. No. This is crazy, actually. You think for a second date I'm going to take you to Mexico on my buddy's trip that's been planned for months? Yeah, that's pretty much what you made it seem like. Whatever. I think it would have been really cool. I'm glad you think it's insane. At the time, I was like, wow, this guy's amazing. And now I'm like, wow, this guy's you, apparently. All right. All right. This is not what I expected. Yeah, fun fact. Not what I expected either because I started out with an invite to Mexico and then I got blown off. So I guess that makes two of us. Hold on. So if you hear about a nice thing, you assume that that's just yours?

You know what? Here's a bit of advice. On your next date with someone else, maybe don't tell them about your upcoming trip to Mexico. Maybe don't tell them that they should come. How about that?

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