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🗓️ 27 July 2022
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Nick Stumbo, Executive Director for Pure Desire, sits in on Porn Free Radio Today. In this episode, Matt and Nick talk about being all in with recovery, basketball, the 2022 Pure Desire summit, and our favorite decade, the 90's.
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0:00.0 | Porn Free Radio, episode 289. |
0:15.8 | Back in episode 239 of Porn Free Radio, I talked about the all-in state. |
0:24.1 | And I quoted Chris Doris and I actually play a story that he tells about being on a cliff |
0:31.6 | while traveling in Africa and doing a cliff dive, actually jumping off a huge cliff into a river, I think. |
0:40.4 | And he talks about before he jumped, he was in that state of consideration and deliberation. |
0:49.7 | Am I going to do this? |
0:50.7 | Am I not going to do this? |
0:52.0 | What is this? |
0:53.3 | What's going to take?? Am I not going to do this? What is this? What's going to, what's this going to take? |
0:56.3 | And he actually, it's his turn to jump and he, he passes. Actually, someone ends up going ahead of him. |
1:04.8 | But he finally decides to do it. And there's this moment where he steps off the rock. And he calls that the |
1:14.1 | all in state. He says the decision had been made and all there was left to do was whatever it took. |
1:20.7 | And that involved no more consideration and no more deliberation. He was all in. |
1:29.0 | And it's interesting. |
1:30.1 | I think a lot of us start recovery, kind of like Chris, on that cliff rock. |
1:36.1 | We're looking over the edge and maybe we're listening to a podcast or buying a book or going on Reddit trying to find out some concepts or |
1:48.1 | tools, but we're not all in. We haven't done what it's taken, you know, to get to that state |
1:54.5 | where there's no more consideration or deliberation. We're going to do this. And that's why I'm excited to share an opportunity for you guys. |
2:05.9 | And it's the Pure Desire Summit coming this September. And they're calling the summit all in. |
2:13.9 | It's funny. I went on the website and they actually have a picture of a guy jumping off a cliff into the water, just like Chris Doris's story. |
2:22.7 | And I think this is a great metaphor for taking your recovery to the next level where you're going to an all-in state, where you're doing something that actually is going to engage and catapult your |
2:35.8 | healing to the next level. It's super cool. So this conference is coming September 16th and 17th. |
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