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Hi guys, the topic of this episode is why were they afraid to commit? I'm just

gonna get straight to the point with this one. There are so many people who

stay stuck because they're either telling themselves that the person they were

interested in was afraid to commit or the person they were interested in told

them that they were scared of commitment so then they went on their merry way. If

you find yourself in this position, it's time to stop racking your brain with

this and stop replaying chats and scenarios over and over in your mind. Because I'm

gonna tell you right now why they didn't commit. Are you ready? They didn't

commit to you because they didn't want to. Period. Point blank. No one who

really likes someone says, oh my god, I'm too scared to commit. See ya. Peace out.

It just doesn't happen. And even if that was a reason, which it's not, but even

if it was, who would want a weak minded person like that anyway, who runs away

with their tail between their legs? I mean that's not exactly attractive to be a

grown-ass person and tell someone, oh I'm too scared to commit to you. That would

actually fall into the territory of Ick. No, they just don't want to put effort

into you on that level. They have no problem doing relationship things with you

though of course. Miraculously, they have no fear where that's concerned. Yeah,

they can use you and sleep with you, no problem. They're not shivering with

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