287-Steadying the Waves of Marriage
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 13 May 2021
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
It's ok to not feel amazing in your marriage all the time. This is real life and sometimes things happen.
Someone gets sick.
Someone is tired.
Someone was selfish.
Someone wasted away their entire Saturday watching superhero movies and didn't feel like being an intentionally seductive tigress.
(This last one was definitely me).
Your spouse is wonderful, but even in the best marriage there will be moments of the negative side of the wave. And that's ok.
That's normal.
If you're a 2 out of 10 and on the best days you're a 4 out of 10...
I want you to get to a 9 out of 10 and the bad days are just a 7 out of 10.
So, get your marriage to a better spot but when you're up there in your healthiness, expect waves.
Also, if you want to work with Belah to get your marriage healthy (up your marriage to an 9 or 10), find out more by getting on a call with her or a member of her team to see if it's a good fit.
Fill out an application here: delightyourmarriage.com/cc
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.4 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.6 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:16.8 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:22.4 | Hi there and welcome. |
| 0:24.2 | This is Bella and I want to thank you for jumping in with me today. |
| 0:28.7 | Today I want to talk about the up and downs of marriage. |
| 0:33.6 | And yeah, kind of give you a normalized picture of it and maybe re-align some expectations. |
| 0:41.1 | So before I do that, though, I'm excited to share that I've opened up clarity calls again. |
| 0:47.3 | So if you are at a spot where you need some change in your marriage, |
| 0:52.0 | but you're really not sure where to go from here. |
| 0:55.1 | I invite you to fill out an application. |
| 0:58.5 | That really helps us to know if you're the right fit for a clarity call. |
| 1:02.8 | And yeah, so if you fill that out, then we can review it and get you the help that you need. So go to delight |
| 1:13.4 | your marriage.com slash CC for clarity call. And you can fill out that application. And the sooner you |
| 1:20.1 | do that, the sooner you can get help and get your marriage transformed. So let's go ahead and dive in. |
| 1:34.6 | Okay. your marriage transformed. So let's go ahead and dive in. What happens a lot, I think, is we expect life to be very stable and things to just basically be even every day. And the thing about humans is that we're not |
| 1:54.8 | that stable. We're not that steady. We kind of go up and down with all sorts of things in our lives, you know, |
| 2:04.5 | whether it's our situations or the people that we're closest to or the events that happen in the |
| 2:11.9 | world. I mean, it's natural for our emotions to rise in the good times and go a bit lower in the bad times. |
| 2:20.7 | And what I want to invite you to know is that's okay. It's okay to have the painful emotions. |
| 2:30.6 | And that's not something you have to run away from. It's not something that you have to be scared |
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