The needs to come to a place of acceptance and the need to come to a place of understanding or getting answers.

They're both very real needs for us human beings and they definitely can be interconnected and there are differences in the best ways to

approach getting each of those needs met and we can sometimes even cause

ourselves more difficulty and more hurt and more suffering when we confuse those two needs or possibly if those

needs are a little bit too entwined.

Welcome to the multi-amory podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily. And I'm Dedicher. We believe in looking to the future of

relationships, not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're monogamous,

polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see

you and we're here for you. I know I did.

forcing me for myself to fit.

On this episode, To Fais

On this episode, it's the multi-ammery podcast. We're talking about closure

What it is, when it's needed, when it might not actually be something that we need even if we think that it is. We're going to be taking a deep dive into some research about it as well as breaking down what

do we even really mean when we talk about getting closure or

needing closure or wanting closure.

Yeah I'm sure. I know that closure is such a broad topic and we can think about closure with things like the death of a loved one, but I usually think about it in terms of relationships. I my experience is that that word

closure is mostly tossed around with relationships and especially in regards to

break-ups. I was curious what are all y'all's experienced thoughts opinions about

relationship closure? Well I mean I definitely like have one relationship that sticks out in my mind that I didn't feel like I got a lot of closure on and it sort of haunted me for many years and then actually just kind of knows the story but when

we were like first opening up and becoming Polyamorous I like drove down to

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